This is not for you folks who do not understand the deliciousness of humiliation. This is for those of us who get that being teased and taunted can be extremely arousing.
Know, too, there can be gradations of humiliation. One persons subtle can be another’s intense. I love learning your specific style and would not foist the heaviest criticisms on someone with a gentle, tender heart. It’s all in the dance we do together.
Humiliation, Let Me Count the Ways
Subtle Humiliation
For some folks, the gentle and tender types of humiliation are what get their juices going. The slow and easy, “Remember when that girlfriend put her hand down your pants when you were a teenager? Tell me what she said again? What did her face look like?”
When you enjoy this type of embarrassment, it doesn’t take much to remind you of why you like to be humiliated.
When she put her hand down your pants and into your underwear, you told me you were very, very hard already. You said her eyes widened. She pulled her hand back and stifled a giggle. You were in that moment of Will She or Won’t She continue. All these years, you can remember every second of that experience. It was in slow motion, filled with lust and desire, and then you were shown your true self; that you have a tiny little dick.
Then your whole world changed.
Basic Humiliation
All men masturbate. We know you do. You can try and hide it in the shower or in the car or somewhere you think no one notices. But we know the truth: You can’t keep your hands off that dick. You are a chronic masturbator!
Have you ever been caught jerking off? Someone in the family, perhaps? A neighbor? Your girlfriend? Your college roommate? Your wife?
Have you jerked off in the bathroom at school? At work? At someone’s house?
Speaking of someone’s house, have you stolen panties out of their hamper? Sniffed those panties? Licked those panties?
This kind of humiliation is a hoot for me. I absolutely love making you confess your naughtiness that you dare not tell anyone else. Does it make you turn red talking about these things? These little oddities you could never have guessed I would know about? Is your dick hard just thinking about confessing to me? GOOD!
This isn’t subtle humiliation, but it isn’t cruel either.
Harsh Humiliation
Ah, this takes us to the Mean Mistress type of humiliation.
“You’re a fucking faggot who watches porn and wants to suck a dick so bad you try to suck your own.”
“You are pathetic how you grovel and beg for sex from your wife and no matter how many times she tells you to ‘Fuck off,’ you keep trying. How stupid can you get?”
“What the fuck?! You allow your wife to fuck black men because your pitiful dick falls out of her when you try to fuck her? You know you are worthless as a lover so you subjugate your feelings and swallow those inadequate ones so she can have pleasure. While you sit on the chair wanking as he fucks her good and long. Hear those orgasms she never does for you? How does that make you feel?”
And there is the ever-popular, “You have to call a phone sex line to get off. How does that make you feel?”
I can be as cruel as you need me to be. Just say, “More,” as we talk and it is yours!
Your Humiliation Style is the Winner!
I definitely like subtle and basic. But I have a question. Can you have harsh without being mean? Because I would love that as well.
Well, sure!
An example?
Well for instance, the second paragraph under harsh humiliation segment. I would react far better without the “how stupid can you get part”. I think you are dialed right into how to trigger me either way though. No concerns there!!
Yes, name calling is a challenge for me… do I? Don’t I? I usually ask: Are there any trigger words TO say or NOT to say? I want to honor their lust, but also their hearts.
You are so good at what you do.
Ooooo, and you are so good at what you do, too!
Prance for me, sistah!
Oh my for me it’s you/Ms Becky/Ms Erika/Ms Madi dressing turning and keeping me as a girl ??????all 4 of you are right in saying I look better as a girl. I do. Especially with all of you seeing your clitty grow in my panties and watching me get hard and off by rubbing and using my pink vibe. How can I say no or resist? I can’t. Especially when Ms Becky said after our last call I made the adjustment how real women do.
That’s all humiliating for you, carli?
It’s hot Ms Daphne! Especially with all 4 of you seeing me as your lipstick lesbian sissy girl forever.
I am absolutely trembling after reading this blog entry, Ms. Daphne.
I’m going about my day but checking back in here & there, and you just slapped me in the face.
And then you looked over at your girlfriend and said, through your laughter, “See? I told you that these guys who call me are freaks. Say thank you, peewee.”
Say, “Thank you, peewee.”
reverberating laughter all over the world at your expense
Feel it?
Hi Mistress Daphne…Guess we all need some humiliation from time to time to keep us little pets in line and that’s where you and all the other wonderful women of the Empire shine.
Now real life can be a little too real in its sting.
I’ve never been caught with “All hands on Dick” and would be mortified were it to happen. But at the behest of a Dominatrix (or several) I eagerly grip it and rip it under their amused gaze!
A number of years back we had a Thanksgiving weekend at a family members cottage. After a quick dip (very quick…Northern lakes are quite chilly in October!) my brother in law seized the opportunity, and the waistband of my trunks and pantsed me on the dock!
Nearest to the scene were, of course, the young girlfriends of my nephews! Yes, adults, don’t worry!
Now a swim in the aforementioned cold Canadian lake in October? My peanut was nowhere to be seen.
Of course I recovered as quickly as I could….probably on the warmest July day there wouldn’t have been much to see either!
Later in the evening in the midst of the holiday revelry the topic was broached, (not by me) and one of the girlfriends said to me “I felt so bad for you”
I didn’t press….Hmmm…she didn’t say, I FEEL bad for you, which carries a different slant.
She may have had the setting sun in her eyes…or did her angle somehow project me in a favourable light? Not likely. I’m not much for lowbrow humour and I think unconsented public humiliation can be cruel.
I was a good sport about it…(beer helps!) but on the whole I’d prefer to get a pie in the face. Oops Mistress Daphne, don’t take that a a segue into sploshing! Lol!
I have no idea what you do in your real life, peg, but if it isn’t writing, you are in the wrong profession. I wish I was as prolific as you are!!! You are amazing and your stories are fantastic.
Thanks for sharing this one… and I do NOT feel sorry for you!
Not one bit. ??????
Thanks Mistress Daphne. It’s so flattering to read that you enjoy my stories and the manner I relate them. You’ve complimented me often, so of course I strive to give you my best always. I haven’t thought of my little dock dick dido in some time, however if memory served I lost the “wishbone pull” after dinner negating the chance to wish for “junk to put in my trunks!”
Needless to say I was on high alert the next day, drawstring pulled very tight on my bathing suit!??
Oh and an addendum…I know you would have loved to be there! I know if I were poolside with you, I wouldn’t even be allowed trunks in the first place!
I’ve been fishing for an invitation to be the pool boy (sissy) for Mistress Erika but she hasn’t taken the bait. I’m using the biggest worm I have! Lol!
Oh the thoughts you make me think when I enjoy your blog! Thanks Mistress Daphne.❤️
I am so glad you enjoy my writing, too!
Thanks so so much!
Giant hugs!
Couldn’t figure out that first emoji (next to the eggplant) you put in your reply. I just assumed it was a large steel rod, which describes me to a T!?
Of course it’s a ruler! Nothing makes me hyperventilate in shame…(and excitement)more than seeing a woman approach me with a measuring device in their hand!
Perhaps this explains why I spend so much time at Home Depot!
Really Mistress Daphne you don’t feel a bit sorry for me? How about an “itty bit” lol!
Not even a teensy tiny itty bit.
Nada.
I absolutely love your writing and this is my hot button. I’m sure this is no shock but humiliation is something that I crave and well, seek.. A combination of all the types you’ve detailed here all get me excited. I’ve hid this side of myself over the years but I’ve promised not to shy away from being exposed or who I am from now on.. thank you Ms Daphne🙂
How did you POSSIBLY hide? YOU?!?
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I know, the social butterfly that I am would make me appear like an attention whore, lol. In RL I can be quiet, unassuming and someone that prefers to just watch and listen:)
Still waters run deep!