This is not for you folks who do not understand the deliciousness of humiliation. This is for those of us who get that being teased and taunted can be extremely arousing.
Know, too, there can be gradations of humiliation. One persons subtle can be another’s intense. I love learning your specific style and would not foist the heaviest criticisms on someone with a gentle, tender heart. It’s all in the dance we do together.
Humiliation, Let Me Count the Ways
For some folks, the gentle and tender types of humiliation are what get their juices going. The slow and easy, “Remember when that girlfriend put her hand down your pants when you were a teenager? Tell me what she said again? What did her face look like?”
When you enjoy this type of embarrassment, it doesn’t take much to remind you of why you like to be humiliated.
When she put her hand down your pants and into your underwear, you told me you were very, very hard already. You said her eyes widened. She pulled her hand back and stifled a giggle. You were in that moment of Will She or Won’t She continue. All these years, you can remember every second of that experience. It was in slow motion, filled with lust and desire, and then you were shown your true self; that you have a tiny little dick.
Then your whole world changed.
All men masturbate. We know you do. You can try and hide it in the shower or in the car or somewhere you think no one notices. But we know the truth: You can’t keep your hands off that dick. You are a chronic masturbator!
Have you ever been caught jerking off? Someone in the family, perhaps? A neighbor? Your girlfriend? Your college roommate? Your wife?
Have you jerked off in the bathroom at school? At work? At someone’s house?
Speaking of someone’s house, have you stolen panties out of their hamper? Sniffed those panties? Licked those panties?
This kind of humiliation is a hoot for me. I absolutely love making you confess your naughtiness that you dare not tell anyone else. Does it make you turn red talking about these things? These little oddities you could never have guessed I would know about? Is your dick hard just thinking about confessing to me? GOOD!
This isn’t subtle humiliation, but it isn’t cruel either.
Ah, this takes us to the Mean Mistress type of humiliation.
“You’re a fucking faggot who watches porn and wants to suck a dick so bad you try to suck your own.”
“You are pathetic how you grovel and beg for sex from your wife and no matter how many times she tells you to ‘Fuck off,’ you keep trying. How stupid can you get?”
“What the fuck?! You allow your wife to fuck black men because your pitiful dick falls out of her when you try to fuck her? You know you are worthless as a lover so you subjugate your feelings and swallow those inadequate ones so she can have pleasure. While you sit on the chair wanking as he fucks her good and long. Hear those orgasms she never does for you? How does that make you feel?”
And there is the ever-popular, “You have to call a phone sex line to get off. How does that make you feel?”
I can be as cruel as you need me to be. Just say, “More,” as we talk and it is yours!