Over the years, there have been a few guys and gals who have “confessed” to me that when we talk, they are not being 100% honest. I stop them there. Let’s talk about bending reality with Phone Sex. I think it will be an interesting discussion.
Let me tell you what I say to folks who make their fantasy “confessions” to me.
Fantasy IS Reality
When you talk to me, whatever you say, I believe. I do not think, “Gee, this guy is full of it. There’s no way he would do this.” For me, what comes out of your mouth is real. I can’t imagine not believing what you say! Knowing that you are speaking the truth is how I respond; with my truth. Knowing this is why clients enjoy our phone sex calls. I don’t make up stuff just to please you. I pull from my own real life at BDSM, Sex Parties and life experiences. It’s a joy bringing you into my world!
And you are bringing me into your world. I love that. Whether that world is in your mind or with a hole in the wall, it is just as real to me.
Fantasy Phone Sex
If you are someone who does have greatly wild fantasies that will never come to fruition, it doesn’t matter. Even if the call is just ten minutes long, you and I are swept into another Universe where anything is possible. I love the creativity of our imaginations and it’s a privilege to take a peek into yours. You never have to say, “I wouldn’t do this in real life” to absolve yourself of the guilt of the fantasy. I encourage you to be yourself, whomever (or whatever) that is.
Know, however, that if we have phone sex that talks about anonymous encounters, real or not (because I don’t make a distinction), I will mention the need to take care of your health by getting on PrEP (see this link, please!). I will mention it once and leave it at that, so if you are in a monogamous relationship and will always stay that way, just set aside my encouragement. If you’re not monogamous, please consider PrEP.
Let’s Meet in Another Realm!
Cum share your fantasies & realities with me!
I would love to talk with you about them, whichever they are.
I love this post, Daphne! You are spot on, this is a safe place for all to share experiences or fantasies, without judgment!
Speaking as the Intelligent Phone Fantasy Mistress I agree fantasy is powerful!
happy birthday Ms Daphne, may your day and year be as fabulous as you are!
Awww, you are so wonderful, Ms. Erika! Thank you so very much! On the birthday wish and the kind comment on my post. You know how I adore you, right? It’s a LOT LOT LOT!!
For me it’s getting into the subspace and making myself available on Skype. I feel so exposed and honest. You see me deeply.
Oh, August… I LOVE watching you, too! You are an absolute yummy male to watch as you entertain me with your hand, your body, and your cock. I’m glad you know I am looking into you as we play. Delicious!
I couldn’t agree more. One of the best aspects of business travel is that I can spend time with people who are creative, imaginative, and kind. Thank you for the service you provide to all of the lonely and unfulfilled people out there (basically, all of us).
I am smiling with humility at your kind words. All of us here at LDW feel our work is a gift given to us and we share openly with our callers and texters and listeners. It is an absolute joy to spend any time with you. Thank YOU for your gracious compliments. You’re awesome!