Submission in BDSM as well as in Femdom situations is a common trait in sissies.
What is a submissive?
Sissies are trained to follow directions. It is crucial for a sissy to listen to her Mistress or Domme. Submissives are typically weak girls who need direction, sometimes minute direction on how to sit with their legs crossed or how to wear mascara properly.
Compatibility
Each Mistress or Domme has her own quirks and requirements for your feminization. It’s important for you to find out if your style of being a sissy is compatible with Hers.
Some issues that can, and should, be discussed regarding your sissification include:
- Chastity
- If you are straight or bi (Straight = Lesbian sissy/Bi = Sexually being with men)
- Cock Sucking vs. Sucking on a Dildo
- Hormones
- Breast enhancement
- Sissy slut? Little girl sissy? Classic sissy?
I am sure you can come up with other crucial topics to discuss; this is just a preliminary list.
Your New Mistress/Domme
It is not uncommon during the first few months to all but clash with your new Owner. This is a good thing! You are both in a new relationship, not unlike other new relationships, where you learn about each other and adjust your expectations. Don’t be discouraged if there are things you need to change or accomplish that you don’t like. That is part of the training.
Hard Limits
You are, of course permitted your hard limits. Some that often come up are:
- No sex with men
- Not going outside dressed
- Not telling your spouse about your fetish
- No golden showers or scat play
If you have other hard limits, negotiate that in the first blush of your getting to know each other. If you shift later, that is fine (or great!); limits can and do change over time. If yours do not, stick to your guns.
Following Orders
Once your hard limits and style of sissy you want to be, the rest is easy. Follow Her directions! She has your best interests at heart since she has taken you on as a student.
Most of all, in following her order, please have fun! This can be challenging, but also should be a lot of fun and very sexy. If you’re finding yourself balking at even simple orders, you might not be in the right relationship. Listen to your own heart!
Be a Great Submissive Sissy
I believe in you! I know you can do this. Being a submissive sissy is a glorious gift to a Mistress or Domme.
If you have questions, feel free to ask in the comments!
Being submissive is better then dominant with you Ms Erika stepping up my feminization on Skype calls dressed up as a girl especially how my cabi friend has dressed me up as a girl after I told her I do this and now I’m wearing dresses wigs makeup lipstick panties slips her old bras with breast forms and heels seeing her, she said no one will notice or care and she’s right. With all the $$$ I’ve spent on women’s clothes bras panties makeup lipstick wigs dresses boots and heels this is who I am and become as I’ve accepted this as I can’t quit or purge. Being a girl is sooo much better then being a guy. If women aren’t interested in keeping me this way it’s their loss.
Oh, yes, you ARE quite the submissive, paulina. Anyone who allows us to control their orgasm has to be at least somewhat submissive. You are a wonderful girl and I think you are great!
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Fabulous post! Being a sissy has been a glorious metamorphosis for me! It is a lot of work being a girl…..shaving, sissy laundry, shopping for the right sizes for a larger ‘gurl’ like me……But having found my place, emasculated, pussy free, locked in chastity and submissive to every woman……it’s oh so worth it!
You are music to my ears, Prissy!
Thank you, first, for liking the post. Second, for being such a great sissy submissive! I love that so much! ❤