Submission in BDSM as well as in Femdom situations is a common trait in sissies.
What is a submissive?
Sissies are trained to follow directions. It is crucial for a sissy to listen to her Mistress or Domme. Submissives are typically weak girls who need direction, sometimes minute direction on how to sit with their legs crossed or how to wear mascara properly.
Each Mistress or Domme has her own quirks and requirements for your feminization. It’s important for you to find out if your style of being a sissy is compatible with Hers.
Some issues that can, and should, be discussed regarding your sissification include:
- If you are straight or bi (Straight = Lesbian sissy/Bi = Sexually being with men)
- Cock Sucking vs. Sucking on a Dildo
- Breast enhancement
- Sissy slut? Little girl sissy? Classic sissy?
I am sure you can come up with other crucial topics to discuss; this is just a preliminary list.
Your New Mistress/Domme
It is not uncommon during the first few months to all but clash with your new Owner. This is a good thing! You are both in a new relationship, not unlike other new relationships, where you learn about each other and adjust your expectations. Don’t be discouraged if there are things you need to change or accomplish that you don’t like. That is part of the training.
You are, of course permitted your hard limits. Some that often come up are:
- No sex with men
- Not going outside dressed
- Not telling your spouse about your fetish
- No golden showers or scat play
If you have other hard limits, negotiate that in the first blush of your getting to know each other. If you shift later, that is fine (or great!); limits can and do change over time. If yours do not, stick to your guns.
Once your hard limits and style of sissy you want to be, the rest is easy. Follow Her directions! She has your best interests at heart since she has taken you on as a student.
Most of all, in following her order, please have fun! This can be challenging, but also should be a lot of fun and very sexy. If you’re finding yourself balking at even simple orders, you might not be in the right relationship. Listen to your own heart!
Be a Great Submissive Sissy
I believe in you! I know you can do this. Being a submissive sissy is a glorious gift to a Mistress or Domme.
If you have questions, feel free to ask in the comments!