Instead of just using my own explanation of why men like Pegging, I asked Mistress Claire the questions and she was gracious enough to answer them for me… well, for you!
Mistress Claire
1) From the outside, pegging seems like a “gay” thing to do. What do you think?
Yup, it seems totally gay from the outside, lol. But you barely have to scratch the surface to find that there’s a sex organ on the INside, and it wants some stimulation whether you’re gay or not!
2) So if a guy might want to be penetrated anally by his girlfriend or wife, how might he approach her with the idea?
So much depends on how sexually adventurous the woman is, and what experiences she has had in her past. Having said that…baby steps. Chances are he has tried to pop a finger in her ass at some point, and whether or not she liked it, it can be a door-opener for getting a finger in *his* ass!
3) What if she asks if she has to reciprocate?
The answer is no, she never has to do anything she doesn’t want to. After all, she doesn’t have the same sexual anatomy, though there is fun in exploring something so taboo that might push her buttons. Just let her know that if she ever changes her mind, you’re game!
4) Why would a man like pegging? What is it that is appealing?
For starters, men see how much we enjoy getting filled up and fucked, so why wouldn’t they want to have that experience? Plus, being on the receiving end of a strap-on puts them naturally in a more submissive position, and playing with that power dynamic is FUN! He goes from being the one asking “How does that feel?” to the one answering — hopefully “Fucking amazing! You can even go deeeeeeeeeeeeper!”, lol.
5) If a man likes pegging, will he want to graduate to a real dick?
A strap-on isn’t a gateway to wanting a real dick. Sure, there are guys out there in denial that they’re gay, but it’s 2020 and most of them know what they really want – and they know how to get it (Grindr, anyone??). No, they love women and our amazing feminine sexual energy – a strap-on is merely an instrument to bring you both closer in a way he doesn’t want to experience with a man or perhaps even another woman. So no, a strap-on won’t change what gender a man is attracted to.
6) Can a man become addicted to pegging?
Of course he can, but it’s not the easiest way for a man and a woman to have sex, so it tends to be a special treat rather than the default way that sex happens. Remember, a big part of the appeal of pegging is that he gets to be the submissive one, so the woman is ideally placed to control whether or not pegging happens that night/week/month. It’s so much fun dangling that carrot!
7) Pegging seems really naughty and even “dirty”… how can someone stay clean when pegging?
It is indeed very naughty and I’d be lying if I said it wasn’t sometimes dirty, or that ‘accidents’ didn’t happen. I’m always prepared with a towel if for no other reason than anal stimulation produces TONS of pre-cum! And then it’s right there, handy for any other mess. I just made a long tips-and-tricks audio with Ms Delia as part of our anal training course that covers this topic. It turns out she’s a fan of anal douching, so there are options out there if potential dirtiness is an issue for either of you. It doesn’t need to be an obstacle!
Thank you, Ms. Claire! Those answers are fantastic! If you all have any more questions for me or Mistress Claire, feel free to email us anytime!
Daphne@EnchantrixEmpire.com
and
Claire@EnchantrixEmpire.com
Fun and informative post!
Glad you enjoyed it.
ENJOY (present tense) it. 😉
What a thrill when you and Ms Erika did this to me dressed up as a girl!!! This is total submission!!! Especially now that I’m using my dildo with my lipstick on my lips as a girl. I really do have perfect lips doing this dresses up as I really do look better as a girl!!! With dildo/vibe and rubbing your clitty creaming my panties with permission by both of you this is who I am and become in being your lipstick lesbian girlfriend forever.
You are right, paulina… you DO look better as a girl! You are an exquisite woman and I LOVE seeing you playing with your bum.
YUM!
Ladies this is a fantastic post! You hit upon some very important points when it comes to males and pegging! You did a fantastic job dispelling fears and myths! No wonder I adore you both!
Thank you!!
You, too, are amazing, dear Ms. Erika. I had a great time working with Ms. Claire. Collaboration is always so delicious, isn’t it?
Much love to you both!
Gay? No pegging from women. Or T Gurls no not gay exciting wanting a hairy man yes that is gay. Hanging out with manly men talking being close yes gay gay gay
Hey there! Long time no see, April! I am glad to see you.
Interesting ideas on what is gay and what is not. You are always a delight.
Thank you Daphne i went out of sissy mode and just returned with a nymphomaniac passion
Ack! I hope you did not purge! I know how challenging the cycle can be.
Happy you are back!
I learned about purging years ago even before i was crossdressing i would buy G Strings and go to gay beach then afterwards i feel ashamed and threw them away.So i would buy more & go hack to beach. Then i started crossdressing when purge time came i would give other gurls my fashion mistakes. Women i liked and knew i would give what didn’t fit me anymore. My only purging now is on internet stuff. I never know how much further i will feminize when i go back. Last October i had sissy urges and started a bit. A female friend told me she would give me her panties when didn’t happen i went back to total man hood except for a peek on internet. I guess what is all going on right now bummed out my guy side I lost all my guy stuff interests & stopped masturbating. But for some reason i am now i am feeling extremely girly & i suppose if i find a local friend in this lifestyle it will push me over the edge. If not sissy side will still increase. i have so many gurly thoughts now ?
That cycle can be so so difficult, April, I know. I am sorry you had a purge cycle, but what I hope is you find that strength to be who you are, even when it is challenging.
I will write a post about it. Loving you.
Miss Daphne,
I can speak from experience that there is a TON of pleasure for a man INSIDE down there. . I’m one of those guys who always wants it deeper. And harder. And faster. Full disclosure, I’m gay, so my opportunities to be pegged by a Woman have all but gone away., as has my desire to be them sexually. But, as mentioned in your post, there is a turn-on in submitting to a woman. Giving her the power. Letting her see the multitude of facial expressions as she slides her strap on in. First that initial shock from slight discomfort. Then the gasp of pleasure as she slowly slides it in (and watches my eyes roll back in my head in pure bliss), and then seeing the utter contentment in my smile as she rhythmically drives that toy deep in my ass over and over again. It must be music to her ears as she hears my moans of pleasure begging for more and more dick. Her asking if she should stop and Then seeing the frightened look on my face as if she was taking it away for ever…and hearing me beg her not to stop. Ceding the power to someone else is a huge turn on for me.
In terms of cleanliness, there is some prep work one can do to avoid messes. There are a few products out there that that are quite effective in cleaning the area that is about to get pounded. But, be careful, too much anal douching is bad. And it’s impossible to use too much lube. ESPECIALLY for beginners.
I can’t speak for other men about pegging leading to being gay. That’s an individual thing that every man must deal with. For most, I’m sure they are Hetero with a desire to explore their back side a little. For me, I’m the opposite. I’m 100% gay with the occasional desire to have a beautiful woman give it to me hard, deep and fast.
Thanks for a great post.
What an amazing comment, Aaron!
It is fantastic to hear from someone who is gay comment on the “become gay” issue. Did you get pegged before coming out? If so, did pegging MAKE you gay? (I know the answer, but want to hear it from you.)
Thank you for your description of what it feels like from a man’s perspective. Brilliantly said.
And you spelled “cede” correctly. I am in love!
Thanks so much for writing.
Ms. Daphne
Miss Daphne,
To answer your question, I was never pegged by a woman, although I thought about it a lot. I just never knew how to present that topic. Now that I’m out and have nothing to hide, Id totally bend over for a beautiful woman and let her have full control. The thought of my ex pegging me drives me wild! (“You like this big cock in your ass, Aaron?”)
For me, it wasn’t one “thing” that turned me gay. Nothing Turned me gay. I was ALWAYS gay, Daphne. It just took me a while to look past societal expectations and see the real me??. Now I’m a proud, happy cocksucker! I LOVE MEN!
PS. I will never CEDE taking seed?
First of all, YAY GAY!
Secondly, sorry it took a minute to answer your comment. I was so excited to see that, even as a gay man who loves to be fucked in the ass, you would still enjoy a good ol’ fashioned pegging. HA!
The thought of your ex fucking you made MY eyes bug out as she taunted and teased you. Would she be offering you a path to Gaydom? Seems she could have!
Thanks so much for writing, Aaron. You are awesome.
Daphne,
Thanks for the encouragement! It feels AMAZING to be out and proud. I am happy to share my story with anyone. It wasn’t easy but the struggle was well worth it. Self acceptance is a true gift!
What i would like to hear is why women enjoy being the pegged so much? I have seen the looks of pleasure on the Mistress face while the peg-ee screams in pain or satisfaction Thank you Daphne for your understanding of the purge cycle & its affect . ? surprisingly during one cycle i bought a large amount of male clothing
Many women love having anal sex, pegging if they have a female lover. It is delicious! I love it!
And yes, I do understand the binge & purge cycle very well.
Thank you Daphne very interesting. I could be on either end I would like to be the Peg-ee or the Pegger. I would wear my strap-on. I would like to hear why women enjoy being the pegger (one who’s giving the Peg).
Because it’s FUN!!!!!
And girls just wanna have fun