I have had a run of folks, male and sissy, say they want to learn to suck cock. Well, being a major cocksucker myself, I can surely understand why!
Why Be a Cocksucker?
Why would anyone want to be a cocksucker if they are not already? Perhaps you have had your own cock sucked and thought, “What must that feel like, having a dick in my mouth?” Or maybe you have watched cocksucking porn and really gotten off on watching the women get their faces fucked by those huge black dicks and wondered if you would have that much pleasure on your face if that were you on your knees.
Of maybe you are like a LOT of men and just really crave being a cocksucker… have since you were a teen… maybe even sucked dicks in college as a drunken game, but pushed it aside as a childish prank… only to have the urge return full-force as an adult.
“Am I Gay?”
This is the #1 question I get from wanna-be cocksuckers.
If you have read me for any length of time, you know I do not believe all cocksuckers are gay, or even bisexual. Or a sissy/transperson (who, if female in her brain, sucking dick, would make her heterosexual), either.
This is how I “test” you all to see if you are gay or bi:
When you think about sucking cock, do you also think about being in the man’s arms, cuddling with him on the bed, kissing each other tenderly after having brought him to orgasm?
If you feel that is just crazy talk, my guess is you are not homosexual or bisexual.
Just a Cocksucker
If you rule out the gay/bi factor, then you are just a run-of-the-mill straight cocksucker.
BE PROUD!
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“Straight” to the point I love it Miss Daphne. I have asked myself that question a lot lately, and if by answering your question then I conclude I am gay. Closeted but definitely gay I love wearing women’s clothes and how feminine I feel but cutting to the meat and bones of your point I have a huge crush an my co worker and would love to kiss and cuddle with him all m night. Hopefully i will finally follow through with my new years resolution this year and finally come out this year. 18 years is too long to wish and wait for. At least there are all you wonderful mistresses here to talk to. Maybe I’ll meet a fag hag to help me act on my gay urges.. Wonder post as always.. Xoxo Jocelyn o9stlag nappy
Oh, Jocelyn!
I LOVE you have such a crush on someone! I also LOVE that you know you are gay in there, too. You are the best!
dancing so happy for you
Hey Miss Daphne:
What a great topic, I use to stress out being gay but have learned to relax and enjoy who and what I am. I am more of a bi beta service fag. I wanted to use my talents of being of service to Dominate Ladies like yourself and their lovers. I have a very small penis and make up for bringing smiles and relieving stress in other people’s lives.
Ahhh, being in service is a wondrous role to have! Bringing pleasure to others is a very noble place to put oneself.
Thank you for your who you are!!
I look at it a bit differently. I think any male that sucks cock is not straight. No, they aren’t necessarily gay. They might be bisexual but they’re not straight to me.
However, where people get hung up is that they believe if they aren’t straight that there is something wrong with it which there almost certainly isn’t. Labels can be a good thing in knowing who we are. It is easier said than done but embracing who you are and just going with that is all you can do.
I love hearing different viewpoints! Thank you for sharing yours, Steph.
Thank you!
Ms. Daphne,
Loved the first line “male and sissy.” So many wannabe cocksuckers think they have to be a sissy to suck cock. You don’t even have to be bi, just maybe bi-curious or “hetero-flexible”. Sucking cock is just another way to express your sexuality.
Oh, and like you, I love giving blow jobs, so I can certainly see the allure!
Ms. Delia
Oooo, I have not ever heard the term, “hetero-flexible,” but I love it! Will use it from here on out, for sure.
You are the best, Ms. Delia!
Let’s hear it for cocksucking! WOO HOO!
Loving cock doesn’t automatically make him gay and I’m always surprised at how many guys wonder and worry about that. AND even if he is gay, who cares? A COCK is a fabulous thing!!!! Especially the big, hot, horny cocks. LOVE the images!
Ms. Olivia,
You are right… why worry about it?!
hugs
All i know is that i thrive on Your making me crawl in front of Master Derek to worship his magnificent cock and thank him for bringing my wife to orgasm after orgasm—something i am incapable of doing.
Oh, Joe…
You are such a sweet little faggot/non-faggot. 🙂
Love you!
yes I am a cum guzzling cocksucking faggot bitch who loves to suck cock swallow cum lick sweaty balls and ass and pleasure a man any way they want
Well, that was surely clear!
I love being called a Faggot in a nice way and being social suppórted and encouraged to suck a dick
Well, you go, faggot love!
Ohhh Ms.Daphne, I, too, love this post! And it truly is amazing how many men are worried about their sexuality and if sucking cock automatically “makes them gay”. It’s just so crazy! But you explain it so eloquently. If it’s ALL about the cock and nothing else…you and I would both have to say, nope…just a cocksucker! 🙂
Yes, yes!
“It’s all about the cock,” (sung to the tune of “It’s all about the Bass.”
Love it!
I all about my nipples getting hard whenever we talk about sucking cock or sucking them.
It’s all about pleasing a woman wearing her panties and perfume & sucking a dick cause she wants me to
I just love to tell a sexy woman that doesn’t want me that I sucked a dick and I liked it . Women on the Internet that have seen my tiny member told me that i belong in women’s panties and chastity and now i suck every nice cock or dick i want so it’s fine with me if you call me a cock sucker
You know exactly what you are, girl.
😂🤣
LOL, this post was perfect! Wave your cocksucking flag loud and proud! I’m really fond of playing on some of those insecurities and I may or may not have allowed one or two cocksuckers to believe they just *might* be gay, but I agree with you on what makes a gay man vs. just a straight (hah!) up cocksucker. Great post, Ms. Daphne!
Ahhhh, yes… calling a man a faggot, even a straight man, can be extremely arousing.
Humiliation is so yummy.
Love it, Ms. Piper!
If you have sucked a dick you are a cock sucker no matter what other people will call you or you refer to yourself as. I am a tiny micro penis panty wearing cock sucker. I haven’t liked all the cocks I have sucked but I wish some were here right now yummy. I do however prefer shaved and circumcised . I have gagged on a 10 in her and had a few other nice ones Would love to read other gurls comments on sucking
I do like women very much but when your only 2 inches you really can’t have many options with women . So in panties I go and if you ladies want to call me a faggot? Please do I have sucked some cocks and liked it
I am looking to suck a dick or a cock today tomorrow or Friday .And i will give you girls all the juicy details. A girl like me can only diddle and pinch and pull on nipples for self pleasure without using toys
Save juicy details for a call, love. Otherwise I will have to edit it out.
But have fun!!!
I would consider adding one more criterion – if the “cock only, not the man” cocksucker type DOESN’T care about the size of the cock, I feel that puts him in a gray area. Worship and submission is what you offer a superior, and a smaller cock is not…so if you suck it anyway, you have a reason that goes beyond that, and it might just be that you’re gay.
Or you don’t care what KIND of cock you suck, just so it is a cock!
Thank you, Ms. Claire!
Plastic or paper?
They’re definitely not straight Mistress Claire lol
laughing and nodding
I agree with your philosophy. I have only sucked a cock once. I’m not opposed to sucking cock again but on that particular occasion it didn’t seem gay at all, it was a threesome and it seemed to all 3 of us hot at the time in the moment. Lalainia was her name the cock was her “boyfriend”s she wanted to see some boy on boy action and we gave her some . I suppose some would say what we did was gay,very gay even, but it was a first for both of us, as far as i know, and i have to say that boy gave me one of the best bjs i ever got, top 3 at least and i tried very hard to return the favor as well as impress Lainy. Its a great memory for me, we were all 19 then , that was about 8 years ago. Lainy was a really close friend and we would do anything for each other and we did back then. Shes the first girl I felt into being dominated and even humiliated by, she wanted to be with a real mamly man that every once in a while she could be the “man” with and have this manly guy become and be treated as her little bitch , a role reversal if you will. I miss her , shes married with two kids and a pretty straight life now. And I’m still horny as ever??????
What a YUMMY story, Clarence!
You are WAY younger than I thought you were. I am a MILF to you, you know that, right?
Guys DO give great blow jobs… that is historically accurate. Even you straight boys have a good idea of how to do it.
Thanks so much for sharing your experience with us! Fantastic!
Enchantrix Claire for me it’s how the cock looks I prefer circumcised and shaved never sucked a pink one or a barbeque looking one size doesn’t matter for a sucking a nice dick is a nice dick If I tell someone they have a nice dick I will suck it. What do you do Enchantrix Claire?
It would be great to email Ms. Claire! I love her and she is fantastic. Claire@EnchantrixEmpire.com. Have fun!
Interesting analysis, that I agree with 100%. I’m 70 and married (happily) and I sucked my first cock, out of curiosity, when I was teen and have been sucking cocks off and on and loving doing it ever since.
I love that you and I are cocksuckers even though the world would presume we are not the type to suck cocks.
Aren’t we awesome?!?
Yes i am a cock sucker ! I have had some wonderful experiences at the gay ? i have had more unpleasant experiences.because men aren’t alway nice
PEOPLE are not always nice.
Not just men.
Glad you have had some good experiences!
I went to the beach looking some cock to suck couldn’t get the one that lit up my fire i tried all the signals & no reaction.
Red tide at the beach ..Glory hole is only option with condom if it’s open and still in business
In Tampa at all you canEar China buffet down the street is a glory hole according to the internet .Wondering if they charge to be on the sucking side? If they do ? Forget about it.????????????????
Yes I am a cocksucker to I love to suck any mans cock I am know around Kentucky as a sissy cock sucker Men hit on me daily for blow jobs
Oooo, now that is yummy as fuck!!!
The beach action is getting better. I finally got my hands on some nice cock. So exciting !! Not only big dicks googled extremely big cocks 😮😮😮😮 wow!
just a curious question are you a c********* if you suck your own cock?
That’s an interesting question!
You’re at least an Auto-Cocksucker. Wheeee!
Good for you. Go for it.
I just love cocksucking encouragement. I have a tiny penis wear panties am pussy free
and suck Dick and I love it when sexxy women encourage me do do so!
I love sucking my own cock it’s gratifying and I love being able to give myself a b****** anytime loads of fun!!
How fun are you!? I’m so glad you can do that! Not many can. Have a blast! (literally)
Thinking about this question, I guess that there are two sorts of pleasure involved for the cocksucker: a) the pleasure of being humiliated, and b) the pleasure of sexual satisfaction. If someone is straight, but also very keen to be humiliated, they might only get the first pleasure, but for them it is enough.
Speaking personally I am certain I am bi, and perhaps with a slight preference for males, but I enjoy humiliation too.
How very introspective of you! I love it. Those are incredibly important thoughts, for sure. Question about your bi-Self. Is it emotionally bi? Or just sexually bi? Or both?
Curious.
(and smiling)
This is where it might get really interesting (and difficult), Ms. Daphne. I am certain the answer is both, but – perhaps because I enjoy being humiliated – the kind of male I can imagine myself having a close and affectionate sexual relationship with (a fellow beta) is not the kind that I think I would get the greatest sexual pleasure from (an alpha).
I only wish I were in a position to do more practical research in this area…
Ahhh, the dilemmas of real life obstacles.
I was an Owned submissive for a couple of decades, so totally understand the Alpha desires. I have chosen to not be in a committed relationship again because the idea of finding another Alpha I can attend to is overwhelming. Being a Domme is much easier now. I love working with subs and bottoms and my experience as a sub has helped me be an amazing Mistress.
Not sure you wanted all that info, but you inspired the longer comment.
I understand.
Lately it soon seems that it’s way more fun to suck a dick than be sucked. nowadays whenever e suck a dick my nipples get hard as a rock& I wet my panties and taste my cum
Miss Daphne I was just curious if you have sucked your own cock does that make you a c*********?
What a great question! It makes you a SELF-Cocksucker at the very least.
What do YOU think, Steve?
I think it’s great if you have the ability to suck your own cock you should do it as often as you can. self-love is very gratifing.
I’d love to suck my own “cock” (clit), but I’d have to be in Cirque du Soleil to do so!
Completely agree. I love to suck cocks, especially cut cocks with shaved balls (like mine), but don’t have any emotional feelings for men. Friends would be shocked to discover I’m a cocksucker, but I don’t see any issue with it. Sex is just sex, and love is a different thing you only have with special people (in my case, women). I’ve fed my fair share of cocksuckers as well, and really love when the guy I’m sucking is verbal, telling me what a good cocksucker I am and how he’s going to feed me a big load. Which is good, because I love tasting cum.
You just gave me shivers of pleasure, Jason! Egads, darlin’… you are a man after my own cunt! Love me some cocksuckers!
It’s so wonderful to know who you are, isn’t it? It doesn’t sound like you have conflicting emotions about things, either. A great role model for other men who want to suck cock, but not be gay.
Thanks so much for sharing!!
I completely agree too Jason I have never sucked a cock but would definitely love to. I shave my cock and balls all the time want to keep them clean if the situation ever arises to get my dick sucked. but I want to suck some dick too. I completely agree that sex is just sex enjoyment for all that’s my opinion what do you think Jason or Daphne?
I’m not sure I want to suck cock, I’m also not gay or bi, But being less endowed (4 inches hard), I’m constantly feeling dominated by men with bigger cocks, including one who hit on me and later saw my dick and showed me his big cock and took a macho attitude that put me in a very vulnerable, submissive space. Just him pursuing me (I politely declined) makes me hard to this day. I’m not sure what would have happened if I completely submitted?
That is SO sexy!!
I wonder would have happened, too. I love that the memory makes you hard!
Thanks for letting me know!