It might seem odd, but we Mistresses… and I… have a pretty decent amount of clients who call to talk to us, sometimes with an orgasm at the end, sometimes not; it’s up to them on these kinds of calls.
Life
For me, the most common talking session is about life in general. Sometimes marriage. Sometimes about your family life. Sometimes about your job and other of life’s stresses. I have had calls where I talk about medical issues. Of course I never give advice, but have helped guide folks to scientific resources with keywords to search or reading what they have found.
van Gogh
When it comes to mental health, I have done many calls with this theme. I’ve helped people find the resources in their community through which to get the help they want. I validate their desire to find help because asking for therapy help can be taboo in several cultures and religions. Taking care of one’s inner Self is vital and has been strained to the max because of the COVID year. There is no shame in asking for help. I am here to assure you of that fact.
Decompressing
Sometimes work or life puts so much pressure on you and it seems like there is no outlet. Mind you, we are not therapists! We do not even pretend to be, but we can listen as you decompress from a hard day. These calls often end in orgasms because, well, what better way to relief stress than masturbate, right?
Venting
I’ve lived a long life and experienced many things so it would be difficult to shock me or make me freak out. If you are angry with your boss or spouse or just life in general, I am here to hold the space with you. I am always glad to listen as long as there are no threats of violence. Sometimes we just need someone to listen and to be told or assured you are not alone. When you need someone to talk to, we are here for you.
Girlfriends
And then there are those of you who need some Girlfriend time! These are delightful calls, girl talk… about boys, clothes, makeup, dating… whatever you sissy girls want to talk about we are here for you!
I love spending time with The Girls… YOU girls! So much fun!
Call When You Just Need to Talk!
I’m Here!
Absolutely agree with this Ms Daphne!!! Sooo glad I’ve met you as my mistress/lipstick lesbian girlfriend you’ve turned me into as well one of my best friends!!! Also appreciate that you/Ms Erika are looking out for my well being/safety as I really appreciate this!!! The dressing me up as a girl is soo much fun and therapeutic!!! Once my gash heals up I plan on calling in regular basis as we need to talk of ownership of me??Is there really and need for me to have girlfriends anymore now that I’m calling you/Ms Erika on regular basis?
Oh darlin’… one can NEVER have enough girlfriends!!
I have an endless supply of them!!!
Ms Daphne, this is a fantastic post. It’s true not all of our sessions are focused on sex , orgasm or lack thereof! True we are not trained therapists and don’t purport to be, but a good portion of any therapy is having a safe place to express yourself. Often that is all people need. A mature, experienced open minded soul who “gets them”. In much of life, and in particular more-so in the kink world one can feel alone, their desires or needs feel “Weird”, and they feel isolated.
We can help them with that! I call it “best friend therapy” Not a dr but offering that best friend guidance. We can help get them out of a rut and as you say encourage them to peruse resources around them to get further guidance.
Thank you for being you, Ms Daphne and your callers have found a gem when it comes to you!! Adore you, lady! ?
Thank you, Ms. Erika! I know you have a heart of gold and your clients are also so blessed to have found you. You are a treasure!
?❤ , all true my friend and THANK YOU!!
Mistress Daphne, what a thoughtful and sensitive post with such compassion and understanding that some of us (many of us) march to a different beat when it comes to calling our Mistresses. Enthusiastically I agree with your comments about Mistress Erika and I am truly blessed to have had the opportunity to establish a wonderful relationship with this amazing woman. Needless to say our discussions, as with all callers, are confidential, and as you describe in your post, do not necessarily have to fall into the category of erotica. Assuredly after our conversations, I am left with a such a feeling of contentment warmth and gratitude that I have had the opportunity to express my thoughts and feel secure doing so.
Without a doubt Mistress Daphne your pets must feel the same and are so fortunate to have you. Thank you for such a reassuring post. This time I’m sending YOU “giant hugs”!
Awww, little peg! Thank you so much for your hug and for your understanding of what I was trying to convey. Thanks so much!