A Caning in a BDSM Dungeon

A Caning in a BDSM Dungeon

In A BDSM Spanking Scene, I wrote about taking my subbie friend Paula and bending her over the spanking bench, then spanking her bottom with my hand and then a wooden hairbrush. I ended that post with: Once Paula’s butt and thighs were sufficiently warmed up… as the...
A BDSM Spanking Scene

A BDSM Spanking Scene

Möbius Strips and BDSM A möbius strip is a mathematical wonder. Not a thing, per se, but a concept. It is a one-sided plane, which, when turned on itself, remains one-sided. It is magical! A BDSM Scene is like a möbius strip to me in that there is an interplay between...
“Am I Submissive?”

“Am I Submissive?”

Asking the Question After spending 15 years as a submissive to my (former) partner, I am a Domme. I will not submit to anyone for a long time. I do bottom, but don’t submit. However, because of my experience, I get asked, “Am I submissive?” quite...