I almost titled the post “Alone on Valentine’s Day,” but I figured if we were all here together, we weren’t really alone, right?
broken heart
We could feel all butt hurt, reliving all those broken heart loves in our past… breaking apart just like that heart above. You know, the loves that left us in a billion pieces, our faces sobbing in the carpet while we played “our song” over and over again.
We could replay the anger, the hurt, the betrayal sie foisted upon us, but what the heck good does that do? It makes us nothing but miserable.
Full Single Life
Instead, why don’t we spend some time today loving our Selves instead!
What does “Self-Love” look like?
Do I mean masturbation? Well, sure. This is a sex site anyway, right?
You might have a date with yourself… light some candles, order in a nice dinner, take a bubble bath… and then set yourself up on the bed (with clean sheets!) and turn on your favorite sex videos and enjoy yourself.
Take your time. Make love to yourself. Treat your body as you wish a lover would. No one knows your body as well as you do. Explore all the different ways you find pleasure.
If you haven’t played with your bottom in awhile, bring out that butt plug from the drawer. Lube it up as if you were stroking a loved one’s cock or pussy. Then s l i d e it in slowly. Feel it as it fills you in that forbidden place.
Maybe you crave being tied with rope… and you happen to have some laying around. Wind it around your ankles, enjoy the binding feeling… and then tug… try and pull your ankles apart. And stroke, feeling the taut rope on your feet as you do.
No matter how you choose to make love to yourself, enjoy it. Relish it. Embrace it. Find your inner lover. And let hir loose!
From me, Mistress Daphne, enjoy your day. If you want some delightful company, do call! I would love to be your girlfriend for awhile.
Happy Valentine’s Day… to YOU!
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I am 100% for this post, Miss Daphne. What a beautiful thought to turn the love inward from time to time, and Valentine’s Day is an excellent chance. I have a boyfriend but I don’t get to see him today. I might just take a cue from your blog and spend a little time on myself instead, and do some online shopping after! (One of my favorite things!)
Oooo online shopping! Sounds great!
For me, Outlander is doing a marathon on Starz and I will be watching starting at 8am. Woo hoo! That is MY self-love… Jamie Fraser. *swoon*
Thanks so much for writing and agreeing to the sentiment behind the post!
Enjoy your day, dear sister-friend.
Great idea!!! I never thought of this! I may call later tonight. I don’t like doing daytime calls as I can’t get into it. It would be great way to have valentines day and end day with the mistresses of ldw feminizing me. Great idea as well in doing shopping too.
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Yes! Call a Mistress tonight! Great self-care. 🙂
Let us know what you buy shopping today. I am curious as all get out!
Thanks for writing. Very much.
Such a wonderful post for You to share to brighten the days of all us lonely old souls out here. Thank You for the ideas, even though Mistress Delia has Her own thoughts on “self-love” this Valentine’s Day. Please know how You have touched me deeply with all Your delightful energy to help keep my loneliness at bay.
I’m glad you enjoyed the post, dear kneel. 🙂 And hope your evening with your Mistress was awesome!
To be honest, even if you DO have a significant other, it’s always good to learn how to take care of yourself. At the moment, I’m choosing to be single, but that doesn’t mean I can’t have chocolates and romance!
Ms. Piper… exactly!!! This post really is not just for Valentine’s Day, but a gentle reminder for many days in our single… and coupled (or more!)… lives.
Chocolates and romance… delicious!
Thanks so much for your added thoughts.
What a great post! Many people do feel lonely if they are single on this day of couples and hearts and flowers. Ms. Daphne, you made your callers feel loved and put a positive spin on it all. Oh, and I am all about self love. If it’s getting myself off, treating myself to a massage, a pedicure, or whatever. It’s all good, and a good reminder to be good to ourselves. Good!
Ms. Meredith… I agree on taking care of ourselves in all different ways! My couple of pampering luxuries every 2 weeks is a mani-pedi and a waxing (top to bottom/back to front!). Doing those two things really make me feel so pretty and so sexy.
I am so glad you are wonderful to yourself, too! It’s so important to be good to ourselves.
Thanks so much for writing!