Yeah, I am screaming it.
CHANGE YOUR FUCKING PASSWORDS TODAY!
Look, one of my fave clients got found out by the tiniest little clue you could imagine, but his partner sleuthed, finding the store he bought toys (and more) at, then hacking into his computer and finding the LIST of things he is doing behind their back.
The hiding is NOT the problem here, though many partners would think so, the issue is you all are not covering your tracks enough.
You see, I do not think you all are sick or perverted for having these needs and desires. Whether you are a cocksucker or a panty sniffer or a lingerie-wearer or a phone sex client, there is NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU!
It is our fucked up society that judges people for being different. It is not you.
Seriously, use a random password generator or something and get the most complicated passwords you can imagine to HIDE YOUR KINKY STUFF!
OMG, this is such good advice, Ms. Daphne. So many of us reuse passwords, and that is a terrible idea even when you don’t have anything to hide. When you DO have something to hide, it’s just stupid not to use a password manager to keep your kinky life organized and PRIVATE. I myself use a password manager to keep my info safe, and they are so easy to use and the passwords they create are nearly impossible to crack. Even if you just use something called “diceware” phrases–really weird words separated with punctuation, like gnomemobile-pueblo-ginormous-elephant. You can remember them, but not easy to crack at all!
If i change my passwords i will never remember them . I have a hard enough time remembering them & i forget my e mail address. I am a mess
There are Password Apps to keep track of your passwords. It’s worth finding a way.