Yeah, I am screaming it.
CHANGE YOUR FUCKING PASSWORDS TODAY!
Look, one of my fave clients got found out by the tiniest little clue you could imagine, but his partner sleuthed, finding the store he bought toys (and more) at, then hacking into his computer and finding the LIST of things he is doing behind their back.
The hiding is NOT the problem here, though many partners would think so, the issue is you all are not covering your tracks enough.
You see, I do not think you all are sick or perverted for having these needs and desires. Whether you are a cocksucker or a panty sniffer or a lingerie-wearer or a phone sex client, there is NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU!
It is our fucked up society that judges people for being different. It is not you.
Seriously, use a random password generator or something and get the most complicated passwords you can imagine to HIDE YOUR KINKY STUFF!