As many of you know, I was a midwife before I was a Phone Sex Domme.

Worlds Apart?

It might seem worlds apart, but it really is more similar than you might think. I am able to use my patience most of all. I am present, mindful (I know, new age mumbo jumbo, stay with me!) and able to hear each of you in your place and not project where you are or want to go.

That is why I ask you questions in the beginning, getting-to-know-you phase… so I can find out your specific kinks and desires, not guessing, hitting and missing, until we finally get to the meat of the discussion several minutes in. I do not want to waste your time; I want you to have a completely fulfilled experience.

Holding the Space

“Holding the Space” is another woo woo term that means being with someone with no preconceived ideas of what they will say or need, but to just BE with them, allowing them to share their thoughts and feelings without judgment.

When you share your kinks or fetishes with me, I do not judge. I do not make fun of you after the call. Sometimes I am confused, but I try hard to find out more than you were able to share on the call. I want to understand you! It is important for me to understand you.

Not sure I was able to explain it as well as I needed to, but I think you might have the gist of how my life in women’s health care and my life talking about sex as a Mistress are similar.

I might have to try again!

This last image is how I see LDW with you folks. Completely a part of you while also being apart from you. (Did that make sense?)