I was asked this a couple of days ago if I had a favorite sissy. I thought it was a great question to answer here.
How Can You Be My Favorite Sissy?
This may not be the answer you are looking for, but my sissies all know this to be true.
I want authenticity. I do not need someone who feigns submissiveness by speaking in the third person (“slave would like to speak, Mistress”). That is Internet BDSM, not real life BDSM. I want real people in my life and that includes the submissives and sissies.
Showing Deference
Sure, calling me Mistress is valid… Ms. Daphne is fine, too. I am of the belief that an honorific should be earned, not just given to someone because of where they sit in the room.
If you are just meeting me, in Skype for example, I want you to be yourself. I want to know YOU before I consider you one of my submissives. I do not just take random people and call them my submissives. I am picky and those I choose are a delight to me… ones that share their true selves with me. That does not mean sharing intimate details of their lives, marriages or jobs. Not at all. It means they are honest about their kinks and fetishes without being fake and fawning.
Again:
No Recipe for Favoritism
I’m sure you realize by now that I love each of my sissies… actually, each sissy I meet, not just ones I claim for my own. Each person brings something unique to the relationship we share with each other. Whether I talk to you for one 10-minute call or we have email sessions over a long period of time, your being different from everyone else is a HUGE turn-on for me.
I love people. Real people. Real sissies. Whether you have ever put on a pair of panties or not. Whether you have ever been dressed to the nines or not. If you consider yourself a sissy, you are a sissy to me! And I will treat you as such.
Just be yourself!
Morning mistress. Love this post. I’m not a sissy, more a panty boy and submissive. We have had the pleasure of meeting. My question is do I fit in as being one of your sissies? Inquiring minds want to know lol.
I’ll take panty-boy! You don’t have to call yourself a sissy to BE a sissy-like person.
You wear panties? You’re one of my girls!!!
You’ve definitely made me your lipstick lesbian girlfriend forever in wearing my matching purple bra/panties/heels/makeup/lipstick/
pink sissy collar and long black wig. I’ve never had any luck with women as I’d rather wear what they are wearing and now I am as my cabi friend has done this to me in picking out dresses leggings yoga pants blouses women’s turtleneck sweaters heels boots wigs makeup lipstick along with being measured fitted and kept in her old bras. She along with you/Ms Erika and the other ldw mistresses are right in saying I look better as a girl and not to worry what others think anymore as they won’t notice or care along with accepting I am a sissy girl forever. I can’t try to resist say no or fight this as cabi friend has sent me home dressed as a girl. I’m glad she did this as she’s taken control over me in sensual caring way as all of you have.
I love that you feel loved! You ARE loved, carli!
And you ARE a girl, sweetie pie!
Oh Mistress Daphne, talk about being put on the hot seat with that question!
Hopefully you’ve put everyone’s mind at ease and there aren’t hundreds of bitten down French tip manicures out there! (No, not me, my nails are terrible!)
Just like trying to pick your favourite dish at a buffet, your choice of a million shows to watch for a night of TV…(television, girls!) viewing, or what to wear for a night of glamour, choices vary, and so should Mistress Daphne’s.
Coming from a somewhat larger (by today’s standards) family, my odds were 20% of being the fave! Not bad, but I didn’t worry because we were all loved.
Be yourself is perfect advice!
Thanks Mistress Daphne!
Awwww, little peg!
The key, of course, for both situations (my sissies and your family dynamics) is that they are ALL loved! You got it right there.
Thanks SO much for sharing your thoughts… and I laughed about the French tips. HA! I guess people are going out and getting them again?
Mwah!
Hello Ms Daphne,
Am I one of your girls?
Twirl and curtsey
Always and forever, belinda!
This post. I love this! You are so incredible at accepting your sissies as the unique individuals they are. That talent you have encourages sissies to want to be yours and to be a favorite. And never stop working toward that goal. I for one love working hard for the honor of being yours.
And you ARE one of my (many) favorites, Cindy! Thanks for inspiring this blog post. huge smile
You are amazing… thank you for being “mine.”
I just slipped back into sissy mode.
I’m not surprised.
Welcome back!
Thank You for creating such a comfortable place in Your heart for my energy to be held safely. Both kneelcc’s and neelia’s.
Of course, dear one!
You are always welcome in my space.
❤
I went from crossdresser lipstick đź’„ lesbian then floating towards becoming trans gender . I wasn’t satisfied with some of my results of not being able to shed some of male characteristics of mental aspects and physical appearance so I reverted to bring an Internet Sissy acting on some things I see on Twitter Riding a Dildo and using jeweled but plugs and did chastity and penis shrinkage still doing penis shrinkage and panties & some chastity device underneath my woman’s thong panties is a Eunuch style flat chastity device. No sissy Maid here or house keeping for anyone else but me.I do love sucking random cocks and balls too! and I use a condom on these men whether they like it or not last one said it felt the same as bare back of course I licked the shaft and sucked balls well whatever at least I wet my panties and that’s all that matters so call me a bitch