Sissies: Trying on Lipstick

Sissies! Do you know how to try on lipstick? I thought I would give you a little tutorial about how to go into any store that has sample lipsticks so you can find the colors that would look best with your skin tone. First, Find Your Color How do you even find the...

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We Talk About You (did you know that?)

Did you know that when I am with my girlfriends, we talk about you? We Talk About You! My main four galfriends and I went out on Friday night and had some serious fun at a club. Each of us dressed slutty sexy, me in my tight pink stretch mini-dress with those 5-inch...

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Princess Andi Has a Brilliant Post!

While I read other Mistress' posts, not all stand out like this newest one from Princess Andi. The difference between consensual BDSM and abuse. In part she says: "Asking a potential new Dominatrix about past experiences is going to give you a good sense of what they...

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PReP: Pre-exposure Prophylaxis (HIV Prevention)

I just wrote a loooonnnngggg post about how to take care of yourself if you choose to have unprotected sex. I ran it by an STI Counselor friend who said I had forgotten to write about PReP. Instead of adding it to yesterday's post, I am writing about it separately....

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PSA: When Not Using Protection…

I want to write a bit about the things one needs to consider when you do not use protection (i.e. condoms) with strangers and/or one-time sex partners. This won't be the sexiest of posts, but one I feel needs to be written. Now, to start, you know I have sex with...

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Fuck the Laundry: Suck a Dick!

My new motto! Fuck the Laundry! I have a sissy who was whining about her having to do laundry when all she wanted to do was play. I explained that sissies needed to have clean houses, especially you girls who are sissy wives. After a long diatribe and reminder of a...

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Valentine’s Hearts: Kinky Style!

In my previous post Sexy Valentine's Days Ideas, a reader who goes by D, gave me the most hilarious comments, so I have to share some of them with you. Valentine Hearts You remember those candy hearts we had in school? The ones in the little cardboard boxes with...

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Sexy Valentine’s Day Ideas

That sexy, loving holiday is coming up in a few days. (Don't the holidays just get here faster and faster every year?) Sexy Valentine's Day So you have a lover. They might not be totally into your kink or even know of your personal fetishes, but you can find a way to...

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Rainy Day Masturbation

I acknowledge it is not as cold here in Miami as anywhere north of Florida right now, but it is still nipply outside. And today, it rained all freakin' day, so I was groggy from the time I woke up until actually feeling somewhat normal again at almost 11pm....

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Are You a Cocksucker, Too?

I have had a run of folks, male and sissy, say they want to learn to suck cock. Well, being a major cocksucker myself, I can surely understand why! Why Be a Cocksucker? Why would anyone want to be a cocksucker if they are not already? Perhaps you have had your own...

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What Clothes Make a Sissy?

You know the saying, "The clothes make the man." Well, what clothes make a sissy? The Clothes What kind of sissy are you? One who loves frothy puffy pink dresses with lots of lace and twirl potential? Or are you a more elegant sissy? Are you a classic sissy? A Bridal...

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When in Chastity…

...What does it make you feel like? Chastity Experiences Do you feel empowered? Emasculated? In control? Or out of control so much you need to lock your dick up into a chastity tube. Do you need someone in control of that dick? (Me, me, me!) Or do you do okay on your...

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Cock Control During the Holidays

So you're home for the next week or two, maybe on vacation with the family, giving you a lot more time to play with yourself. Cock Control Yourself! You find yourself touching your cock more, maybe even stepping into the bedroom for a quick yank or two. Or perhaps you...

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Logistics of Clean Sex

I talk to a lot of folks who learn about sex by watching porn. Porn is not real. Let me share a little bit about real life sex and how to have what I call, "Clean Sex." What is Clean Sex? Sex in the best situations is sweaty and sticky and messy. There are no...

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Female-Led Relationship (FLR)

Have you ever thought about being in a Female-Led Relationship (FLR)? I have a client who is in one and it is so powerful, I thought it would be great to share her experience with you. For those of you wishing for a FLR (or Female-Led Marriage - FLM), meet Sarah. Her...

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BEST LDW SPECIAL EVER!

This is a SHOCKINGLY amazing special Ally has come up with for you all this holiday season. Join us in celebrating both the 16th Anniversary of LDW/Enchantrix and the holiday season! Starting on December 14th, we will be celebrating 12 Days of Decadence with a 2-hour...

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Secret Holiday Wishes

One of the things I love about holiday fun is learning how you guys and gals sneak around when there is so much family in the house. Holiday Time There you are, the head of the household, wishing you had on that special pair of holiday panties you got your wife for...

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