Denial is Not Just About Timing

I have a group of folks right now who are all about denial… some teasing, but mostly denial.

Have you ever wanted to go through the trials of denial? Have you ever done it? How long did you last between orgasms?

It’s important to know that the length of time between orgasms is not always the goal, but to BE with the feeling of denial… a woo woo way of saying to find Zen in your abstinence. I love when you describe to me the ache, the need, the desire, but the power you also feel in not giving in. I find that highly erotic and much more fun to talk about than marking off days on the calendar.

Types of Denial

  • Chastity Cage
  • Ruined Orgasm
  • On Command Cumming
  • Abstinence

What is your preference? What is easiest for you? What would be the most difficult?

I would love to rate them from Easiest to Most Challenging and gradually work up to the hard ones (so to speak). Wouldn’t that be fun? It would be like climbing a mountain, going from rolling fields to reaching the highest peak.

I love reading about folks doing great feats of strength and daring do. I can imagine your regaling me with stories of your struggles that day, letting me know how you had to breathe through periods of desire and thinking how important it would be to tell me, your Mistress all your thoughts.

And then there would be the times we discussed breaking your abstinence, when you would try to convince me to let you orgasm. But you want me to be strong, right? Stronger than you in this matter.

Of course, we can work on things together, right? I get to tease you, then deny you. Again.

I love the rhythm!

What are your thoughts?