It can be so challenging living in a world that sees you as a Vanilla person, when you really have a Pistachio soul. I want to give you some Kinky Affirmations to remind you that you really are:

Amazing

Perfect

NORMAL! 

Read on for Some Kinky Affirmations!

People’s attitudes do not affect me.

What I think is more important than what others think.

Only I know and understand who I am.

People do not see my innate beauty.

I see my innate beauty.

Why Do Affirmations At All?

Affirmations can be a wonderful gift to yourself. We live in a world that is harsh and oftentimes mean. None of us deserves that, but most of all, none of us kinky or fetish-y people do. Who wants reality to come crashing in on our dreams and fantasies? I know I sure don’t and I don’t want that for you, either.

I know my innate perfection.

What people think does not affect me.

My kinks/fetishes have been practiced in all cultures since the beginning of time.

Anthropologists have proven we kinksters and those with fetishes are in every culture around the world.

Just because our society thinks what we do or think is wrong, does not make it so.

Find Peace Inside Yourself with These
Kinky Affirmations

Isn’t life hard enough? Why should we be ridiculed for what we hold privately in our minds? As you choose two or three affirmations to work with each week, concentrate on the ones that make you feel the best and most secure. You should feel fantastic as you are masturbating and bringing yourself to orgasm! If anyone wants to know “Who says so?” Say, “Mistress Daphne says so!”

It is our society that is fucked up, not me.

I am perfect just the way I am.

I love my kinky side!

I think my fetishes are delicious.

There are kinky people all around me.

Where Should I Do Kinky Affirmations?

There are many ways to do affirmations. I encourage folks to do them in their car, while they’re in the shower, as they walk their pets, washing the dishes, wherever you have a few minutes alone with your own thoughts. Make them creative and positive. You deserve to feel amazing! Give this gift to yourself.

I can find others with the same fetishes online.

I am not alone.

I’m a good person!

I love being different from everyone else in my life.

I am creating the me I want to know.

Be Mindful as You Repeat Your Affirmations

Mindfulness is a state of mind, no formal training needed. It simply means to listen… really listen… to what you are saying. Allow the words to penetrate your wondrous mind. Even if they seem impossible to believe at first… or after 1000 times, I promise, the information is getting into your brain. You deserve to feel fantastic! Keep at them even when they are challenging or you’re arguing with yourself saying, “No, I’m not!” Listen to me… YES, YOU ARE!

I love me!

I love myself!

I am allowed to love myself!

I want to love myself.

I am worthy of my own love.

Go Forth & Love Thyself!

I say so!

Remember how much I love you!