When you pick up the phone to call a Mistress, sometimes you aren’t quite sure what you’re looking for. A good Femdom is able to hone in on your needs within a couple of minutes. Erotic humiliation is a specialty of mine.

What can be big fun is if you are struggling to tell us what you want or need, and it turns into humiliation… the exact trigger for your penis to become erect and what gets your juices flowing… quite literally.

Why, When, and Where Did Sexy Humiliation Arise?

With the folks we talk to, it isn’t uncommon to have a history of being teased. It’s anybody’s guess why it triggers delicious feelings instead of tears, but accepting that it just does is helpful for all of us.

When you were in school and teased about being very short… or very tall… or if you had to undress for PE in the gym and were made fun of for anything… say, your penis size, perhaps? Did any of that make your dick hard? 

Did that girl you liked so much tease you because of a lisp? Perhaps you stuttered a bit. Maybe your nose is bigger than many other noses. Do you have an extra digit on your hand or feet?

Any and all of these can create a sexual delight in the right circumstances. I know it sounds odd that these might cause an erection, but ask someone who gets one and you will know the truth.

I’d love to know if there are specific instances that you replay in your mind over and over when you masturbate. Do you tell your Phone Sex Mistress about it? If not, why not?

Teasing + Erotic Humiliation = FUN!

However you got this delightful fetish, let’s capitalize on it!

As I said earlier, gentle teasing, not crazy mean humiliation or degradation (which is great fun for some folks, too, but we’re not talking about that at the moment), can be hyper-sexually stimulating.

SPH

The most common humiliation, of course, is Small Penis Humiliation (SPH). Guys were made fun of mercilessly as they were growing up. What’s so amusing about this is that when you are in those younger years, you seemed to always have a hard dick, right? So what came first? The hard penis or the SPH? In your mind, it might have intermingled and each one causes the other to happen/want/need.

Cock and Ball Torment

In the same vein is CBT, another growing up experience with a hard dick and being tormented. This time, with kicks to the balls or knees cramming up to mash your cock. Just the same as SPH, what came first? The kick or the hardon?

What I love about CBT on calls is the level of naughtiness you folks remember. In detail. You all remember the scent of the perfume of the girl who kicked you. You remember what she was wearing. You remember all the people staring at you and then laughing. That laughing, along with the pain, is an amazing turn-on, isn’t it?

Teasing Phone Sex Erotic Humiliation Possibilities

While the teasing part can be verbal, you have to remember our ability to laugh heartily at your humiliation. That audible part can be the best part.

Oh, but what if we could actually watch you doing the things we tell you to do? Wouldn’t that add an entirely fabulous angle to the whole thing? Maybe seeing you is the best part! At least for your Mistress. Watching you masturbate on cam adds a whole different take on your erotic humiliation experience.

Whatever your sexual humiliation fetish is, let’s play it out together. If no one else understands, your LDW Mistresses sure will!