You know how you can’t stop masturbating? How you are obsessed with your cock and crave touching it? You know how much you love watching the cum spurting out because it gives you so much relief and happiness, even if it is only momentary? Because, as we both know, you need to masturbate again. And again. And again… in order to get that burst of endorphins once more… even though they last but seconds. Seriously, what you need is extreme cock control.

What is Extreme Cock Control?

The word “extreme” is in the eye of the beholder. Or rather, the cock of the owner? (And who is the owner… you? Or me!)

Extreme would mean that someone or some-thing takes the responsibility for your orgasms because you, obviously, cannot. You clearly need help because when left to your own devices, you are a clumsy oaf that can’t keep his hands off his penis. Don’t you have any self-control? Oh, that’s right. You do not! That is why I am here, right?

What’s great about ceding your power to a Mistress is she is much stronger than you are. She has the willpower you do not own. She can easily wrest control from your dominant hand and invisibly tie it behind your back so access is gone to that masturbation you crave so deeply.

Why Extreme Cock Control?

Why can’t it just be regular Cock Control? How come the word “Extreme” thrown in there, too?

Probably because you have tried on your own to limit your masturbation. You have, right? Someone told you that you jerk off too much? That you are addicted to porn? Or maybe you hide how much you stroke. In the car? At work? In the stalls? Taking a couple of showers a day?

You’ve tried on your own and failed 1000 times already. You know you need help. You even want help. Perhaps you are  terrified of failing. Again.

These are extenuating circumstances that require a professional Mistress to guide you towards success. The success of limiting orgasms. The success of feeling amazing orgasms when you are finally permitted them. I mean, cumming feels pretty fucking good already, right? Imagine the explosion many times stronger and longer and more intense. That is what extreme cock control can do for you.

What Do You Know About Cocks?

Working with a Femdom Phone Sex Mistress, whether on the phone, in text, or in Skype, is the path to success. We Mistresses are here for you. Not just to “take your money.” That is not our purpose. We are often counselors, guides, teachers when it comes to sex. And yes, when it comes to your penis, too. Believe it or not, we know a hell of a lot about cocks. We have not only worked with thousands of them, many of us, myself included, have studied/played/teased/taunted/devoured them first-hand. 

I love dicks! I think they are so much fun to play with. For me, they are living dildos and I can use them as a magic trick… making them hard, letting them go soft, and making them hard again. I adore being in control of cocks! Being a MILF, I have eons of experience behind me regarding penis play and cock behavioral knowledge.

Many of you reading know I am a lesbian, too. You might be asking, “What kind of lesbian plays with dicks? Are you bisexual?” The answer is no, I am not bisexual. I am similar to the straight man who gets off on sucking dicks and getting fucked by a man, but has zero desire to cuddle, kiss, or live with a guy. That is me as a lesbian who thinks dicks are ever-so-much fun to play with. To suck. But not to fuck. 

How Do I Get to the Top of That Mountain?

You will talk to your Femdom Mistress and lay out goals and strategies. Once she learns a bit about you, she can gauge what kind of plan she would need to do for you to create success in your abstinence and then eventual release. She will be there for you as you falter, struggle, and threaten to jack off, reminding you of the ultimate goal of a screaming good orgasm worthy of waiting for. If you “fail” to stay away from your cock, she will punish you (if that is her style) or chastise you, but she will also guide you towards success with the next try.

Whether you will put a real chastity cage on or an imagined one, you will be going cold turkey for whatever length of time the Femdom wants you to. It might be a couple of days to start or it might be a week. What’s nice is you both understand the expectations and will be working together to find success. And your success is her success, too! Don’t doubt the amount of joy we Mistresses feel when you are able to finally orgasm with purpose and not just a random grab-and-jerk experience.

How Do I Start?

You can peruse the sites Cock Control, Extreme Cock Control, Chastity, or any of the other sites you can find on the Phone Sex Boutique. Check out the Mistresses, then email the ones you are interested in. My email is: Daphne@EnchantrixEmpire.com – all the Mistresses share the same email address with their name before the @. If you have any questions, feel free to chat with the Phone Sex Concierge and she can help you find just the right Mistress. Live Chat can be found on any LDW Page.

Ready, set, stop masturbating so much! (Aren’t I amusing?) Let’s have fun together!