“Do I masturbate too much?” is a question I hear a lot. Is this something you have wondered, too?

Can Someone Masturbate Too Much?

Ahhhh, well, the complicated answer begins with, “What is too much?”

For some, too much is four or more times a day. For others it might be once a day. For a deeply religious man who learned that masturbating is a negative thing, once a month might be too much.

Only you can answer this part of the equation. But I have comments and questions for you that will help simplify things.

If you are asking yourself this question, that says a lot right there. 

Unless someone else is telling you that you masturbate too often and you wonder if what they say is true. Your pondering the issue is more important than someone else saying it.

Each Person Is Different

And that includes others in your life.

Please don’t take others’ thoughts or judgments as truth.

Sadly, it happens a lot. Your partner, married or not, might try to shame you about your masturbation habits. Please work hard inside your mind and heart to ignore that. Your masturbation is your business, not his or hers or theirs. You and only you get to decide what is too much or what is normal. You have had that cock for a lot longer than they have and you know your body and its needs more than they do. 

LISTEN TO YOUR HEART!

Questions to Ask Yourself

• Do you think about masturbating much of the day, even when you are working or spending time with people? 
• Do you limit contact with people so you can jerk off in private?
• Do you forego activities you used to enjoy so you are able to wank? 
• Do you masturbate at inopportune or even inappropriate times?
• Do you jack off so much you are hurting your cock? Friction burns? 
• Are you masturbating so much you are getting carpal tunnel or having a hard time using that hand?

And then there is one of the most important questions: Do you call in sick so you can stay home and masturbate?

Deciphering the Clues

The answers to those questions might offer you insight.

Did you answer yes to more than 3? You might consider whether you are jacking off more than you should. For some, even one is enough to be a clue.

What Do I Do Now?

There are an infinite number of ways to slow down if you don’t want to masturbate too much.

You can set a schedule for yourself. Wean down instead of all at once. Instead of twice a day, jerk off once a day. Instead of 5 times a week, lower it to 4 or 3 if you feel you can.

Some guys and girls feel they need a cold-turkey to reset their minds and bodies so they do any number of things.

• Find a coach to motivate and sustain their wishes and desires
• Use a cock cage and go into chastity for a specific time period
• Enlist their trusted partner to guide them IF the partner does not have selfish reasons for helping you

And Then There Are Dommes

I would be remiss if I didn’t tell you that a Femdom… yes… like me… can make all the difference in the world to your “masturbation sobriety.” We are able to take control in a way others might not be able to. Cock control is something we are great at! We do it alllll day long. If you are interested, email me at Daphne@EnchantrixEmpire.com and let’s talk!

Without limits, I believe in you! I want you to feel great about masturbating… no matter where you started your journey.