Have you wondered if you were a sissy? What is a sissy, anyway. Perhaps someone has called you one and you aren’t sure what they meant.
What Is a Sissy in a Societal Context?
If you asked someone who did not consider themselves a sissy, the word isn’t a very nice one. It means an effeminate man, one who is weak, who cries easily, and it just not manly.
But, what about when you embrace those traits?
Sissies in a Sexual Context
Sissies are often sexual. They might enjoy being called “sluts.” They might be straight in their manly lives, but want a man to take care of, sexually or otherwise, in their fantasy lives.
They might also be lesbian in their fantasy lives. (This can get confusing!) A lesbian sissy is an effeminate man, becoming (through fantasy, dress, or actions) feminine and wanting to have sex, play sexually, or having sex with only females.
Sissy vs. Crossdresser
Sissies typically find the clothes, mannerisms, feminization, and/or activities arouse them sexually. Sex fantasy or real life sexual activities can be an important part of sissies and sissy play.
Crossdressers might or might not include the sexual aspects of wearing the opposite sex’s clothes. For example, if a man wants to wear women’s panties or dresses, the desire does not always include a sexual feeling such as wanting to masturbate.
One Last Note About Sissies
You are the only one who can officially call yourself a sissy. Others who hurl the word at you as an epithet can fuck off. If you feel you are a sissy, whether you dress in women’s clothes or not, then you are a sissy.
Self-identification using labels is an individual’s right, including not embracing any label at all!
If you call yourself a sissy, embrace all that entails! Grab what you want of the experience and, most of all, have fun!
I love being a sissy!!! Especially dressing up as a girl-it’s who I am and become as I’ve accepted this. I’m soo glad my friend along with you/Ms Erika have accepted this as well in dressing me up as a girl and keeping me this way on our calls! All of you are right in saying I look soo cute and adorable as a girl along being better this way. I can’t say no or resist all of you especially when I am a girl. Even though we do phone calls which I plan to resume really soon both you and Ms Erika are my girlfriends as well as my feminization mistresses. Why change this as having a real girlfriend isn’t worth the drama emotion or work unless she’s into dressing turning and keeping me as her sissy girl. I’m soo glad all of you are a part of my life as I do want to be kept as your lipstick lesbian sissy girlfriend forever.
You are correct! You ARE our sissy girl forever!!!
I could not have said it better myself Carli too.
I love being a sissy.
Thank you. All I can say. 🥲
Awwww, thank YOU!
Oh Ms Daphne,
You and all the ladies at LDW can call me a sissy!!
We already do, belinda!
Blushes i know Ms Daphne, you all put me in my place too
twirlllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll and curtsey
Yeah same here
💋💋 to you, Judy!!!
Goodness me, there certainly a lot of moving parts involved when we step into a pair of panties!
I know there was at least one moving part on me when I started crossdressing!
So for a time, I suppose I fell into the sissy category, since I would give myself a “reward” for expressing myself in such a creative manner.
But as I write, I sit pantied in pink, more enrapt in the ball game than self pleasure…so, “cross dresser”?
But then, in my past I have visited so many dominatrices for feminization sessions…so now?
Lesbian sissy. (Think that’s my fave! Nothing feels better than to lay back, completely feminized and submit to Mistress and let her into your world!)
We seem to have a bit of a Dr Jekyll/Mrs Hyde aspect happening!
Lastly, these days I am considered a “Chastity Sissy” under Mistress Erika’s ownership and guidance and it’s a wonderful arrangement.
Thank you Mistress Daphne! I just love to leave comments on your posts…so fascinating and informative❤️
Awww, thanks peg-a-licious!
I agree with Ms Cindy, all I can say is a Big Thank You also !! xoxos
You are MOST welcome!!!
Confusion in the rabbit hole. I thought I was straight for 50 years . Then something snapped and I loved crossdressing way too much so much fun I was having I never wanted to wear men’s clothing until I had too. Then I discovered two magazines before I had online access. Forced Womanhood and Enslaved Sissies. The images in those magazines hit me . Those magazines showed chastity before it was as popular like now I became hooked . I didn’t buy maid or frilly outfits . I was a crossdresser starting feminization but being online a sissy. I sought a Mistress or woman to dominate me totally. I put myself in chastity . I went to Trans Support groups . I just today heard about a fu fun. A form of chastity device that inverts the little problem so it will be totalIy hidden in panties I read the information and think it will work perfect I ordered 2 of them right away and I can’t wait to start using it.