I ask because I have a caller who is a chronic masturbator.
What is a Chronic Masturbator?
I would guess you already know if you are one or not, right?
Do you think about masturbating all the time? Would you rather masturbate than fuck a woman (or a man)? Would you rather masturbate than have someone give you a blowjob? Does nobody’s hand work for you besides your own?
If you answered yes to even one of these questions, you have a serious case of chronic masturbation.
Is That Bad?
I encourage guys and gals who need to masturbate a lot to think about these things:
- Does masturbating keep you from doing your regular household duties?
- Do you miss work or family gatherings to stay home and jerk off?
- Do you run to the bathroom in people’s houses to jerk off before rejoining the party?
- What about jerking off in restrooms at work or in the mall? Do you feel compelled to do these things, too?
If you find masturbation to be getting in the way of your daily life, then you might consider having someone do some orgasm control on you and that dick of yours.
What a Mistress Can Do
I love when I have a chronic masturbator who is also a submissive person. They are malleable and I’m able to gather some control over their masturbation schedule.
This might sound horrifying to you, but that is a clue you really might consider handing over some control of that hungry dick of yours.
By not masturbating every day, your orgasms become deliciously more intense. You will have more cum, and if you’re a cumeater, you know how great that is, right?
But, How Often Do I Get to Touch Myself?
This is negotiated with your Mistress. Do you want to slow-down or stop for awhile altogether? Do you want to remove the word “chronic” from chronic masturbator? Does it turn you on to give a woman power over your cock for a bit of time?
Do not think you will never jerk-off again if you go this route, unless you are looking for chastity, then that might be an option (another topic altogether!). But generally, a Mistress will help you get things under control again.
So tell me in the comments, are you a chronic masturbator and why you think you are. I would love to hear from you!
I am Ms Daphne but now that you own dress and keep me as your lipstick lesbian sissy girl forever with lipstick kisses on my cheeks. I have to ask for permission. I used to get hard and off whenever I wanted to but now that I’m in female lead relationship with you I can’t anymore as you won’t let me go. Being dressed up as a girl is only way I can get hard and off especially with you watching me do this. It’s time to finally give in and accept I’m a sissy girl with you owning and keeping me dressed up as a girl.
This is all so true!! I am so proud of you for asking me and Ms. Erika for permission all the time. You are a VERY good sweetiepie asking.
You make us proud!
Ms Daphne, what a perfectly put post! (couldn’t think of another P word to use in that sentence LOL) you are spot on regarding the chronic masturbator continuum. Masturbation is natural and healthy, so if they want to splooge one, two , three times a day go for it! But when masturbation (Or any habit really) gets in the way of “LIFE” then you might be in a place where it’s negatively impacting your quality of life!
Orgasm or masturbation control can strike fear in anyone, and I love how you assured them that it’s a negotiation process! Even if you don’t identify as submissive, Employing an experienced Mistress, like yourself, to slowly and deliberately change that chronic behavior is definitely doable!
See you around the Empire, sexy!
What I love is you, too, know exactly how to work with chronic masturbators who are out of control. It takes time and understanding to get to that place where we can tailor our limitations for our individual guys and gals … you have that in spades!
Love ya, sister!
Well Mistress Daphne, what’s that saying…”Idle hands?” No doubt masturbation was the inspiration behind this old adage!
Seems I’ve checked off enough of the boxes to fall into the “Chronic” category, for better or worse!
The thousands of times I’ve seen to my needs…(or should that “seen to my kneads”) certainly seems to qualify me.
However, I don’t think the “whacker tally” shouldn’t include the early days when this miracle of nature rose to the forefront…(or three and half, in my case!)
Every lad would certainly have been classified “CM” as we furiously yanked through youth!
I’ve described my masturbation as “the best eleven seconds of my day!”😂
I shan’t confess which questions I answered “yes” to…better left to the imagination. Suffice to say the slightest motivational visual aid would have me lunging for the lotion for a wee bit of gherkin jerkin’!
These days, however, my masturbatory activities are not in my hands, but those of the wondrous Mistress Erika. She decides when and how it’s time and I just love this arrangement.
My peanut….excuse me, HER peanut is under new management and the owner is very fair and knows what is best for “the staff”!!
Thanks Mistress Daphne
Ms. Erika IS quite the Mistress, isn’t she? Glad she has you under better control!