Marica and I met on Saturday, March 7, 2020 and we had a fun and adventurous day together. Part of the day was dedicated to Panties and another part to Makeup (which I will talk about in another post).

Panties… and How Marica Is Doing

First, however, I wanted to know how Marica was doing with the training. I was looking for her reactions to the previous 5 weeks of talking and activities.

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“¿Cómo estás?” I asked her. “How are you?” And we began a really nice discussion.

We sat on my couch for awhile as Marica told me she was really liking the panties part. She was wearing them to my house and all day on Saturdays. She didn’t know it yet, but I was going to add a day for her to wear them… during the week, at work. I knew she would have questions later and looked forward to them.

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My sissy-in-training did not like the feminine hygiene part at all. She said it was more embarrassing than humiliating, looking, touching and talking about the pads and tampons. Even when I made her laugh with the Life Hacks, she was still not interested in using any of the products. I told her, “Yet. You might not be yet.” I do believe that feminine hygiene is a pretty advanced skill/desire for a sissy, but it was good to expose her to the idea early so she has a chance to ponder it over the months.

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Sissy Breakfast Time

I thought it would be good to go out with Marica and eat breakfast in a vegetarian cafe, continuing our talk about panties.

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It was time to talk about wearing panties more often than just on Saturdays. I told Marica she was to wear them at least one more time during the week. To work. She does not do manual labor, otherwise I would have reconsidered how to do this. Carry them in a pocket, perhaps? Keep them in the glove compartment of the car? There are many ways to “wear” panties without them being on your body.

Worries About Wearing Panties


There are 2 main worries when it comes to wearing panties out of the house.

  1. Getting in a car accident and EMS and the Emergency Room seeing them
  2. Getting hurt or having a heart attack (or just bending over!) at work and your co-workers seeing them

I let Marica know that EMS/ambulance folks have seen everything. EVERY-THING. They do not even bat an eye at someone wearing women’s lingerie, anal toys, etc. if they are saving a life.

The same with the ER staff. There is not one thing they have not seen before. They will take your femme clothes off before family arrives so you do not need to explain anything to them. They are very kind in the emergency room.

Hiding Panties Solutions!


Other ways to make sure people do not see your panties accidentally:

  • Wear a belt!
  • Wear cotton panties because slippery ones will encourage your pants to fall down more
  • Wear the same color panties as your pants
  • Be wary of thongs, they tend to play peek-a-boo a lot
  • Wear a long shirt and tuck it in over your panties

Off to Victoria’s Secret!

After our breakfast talk, I surprised Marica with a trip to a local Victoria’s Secret. She had never been, so was nearly overwhelmed by all the PINK in there.

I wanted her to touch the different fabrics and to see what felt good to her. People can make a mess at the store…

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…so I encouraged her to keep things neat, as I expected her to do in her own panty drawer.

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Pick a Pair of Panties

After Marica did some feeling of the different fabrics, I asked her to pick a pair that I would buy for her and she would wear during one workday this week.

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This is the pair she chose and I loved them! See how the crotch is wider? Her not-small clitty would fit inside perfectly. I also liked they were standard bikinis instead of something that would ride high on her hips that might be seen accidentally. She made a great choice!

I could not wait to hear how her wearing panties one day was for her. Next Saturday will be so much fun!

The Rest of the Day

I will do another post to talk about our Makeup Learning adventure.