Some Questions about Sissy Training
I’ve gotten some questions about what I am doing with Marica, my 24-year old sissy-in-training. If you have questions either email me (Daphne@EnchantrixEmpire.com), comment here or DM me in Twitter (@DaphneTease).
What do You do to students who can’t meet Your expectations?
Do TO them? Like spank them?
First, I have NO expectations and that eliminates a lot of the issue right there. I meet people where they are at every step of the way.
While I have talked to Marica in email several times about the panty experience last weekend, when we meet tomorrow, we will have a face to face and then my girlfriends will come over, too and they will decompress with her as well. I will gauge whether she is ready to move forward to the day’s plans (Cock Toys & Gadgets). If I feel she is not ready, we will stay working on panties for part of the day and then begin Cock Toys later in the day.
I cannot, will not, force ANYONE in real life to do anything they do not want to do. Yes, you can say, “I want to do it,” then holler “NO NO NO” but not call your safeword and then it’s all good and I keep right on going. But if someone says, “No” to something, I am not going to cross that line without permission and consent.
And as fun as that sounds in fantasy, I promise you, it is not fun to be forced to do anything. Period.
My Question to Answer Myself: Why are you ruining the fantasy for us by talking about real life with Marica? Why don’t you just do what you do online or on the phone and have fun with her? It would sure be more interesting to us who are reading.
I really think it is interesting to see what real life sissy training is like compared to online or on the phone. Fantasies are amazing! They fuel our desires and orgasms, but when you bring fantasy to life, certain limitations must be met. If you are a sissy, think about wearing panties to work. Have you ever done that? Were you nervous the first 10 times you did it? Still nervous someone will see? Of course part of the nervousness and fear of discovery is a part of the thrill, but we are talking about wearing a pair of panties under drab (men’s) clothes!
Think for a moment if I took you to the mall and walked you around making you try on clothes in front of others. Think about it FOR REAL, not in fantasy. You would most likely tell me to find someone else to pick on.
Going out shopping is an advanced skill we would tackle in the second year of training if she and I decide to continue after December 2020. This is not something you do to a brand new sissy. It takes some acclimation to everything before being able to take her out and dress her up.
Do You give him “vitamins?”
Vitamins in this context means hormones. It goes with this question often asked, too.
Are you going to give him hormones?
As I said above, I would never do anything Marica (or anyone else) is not wanting to do. If she decides she wants to take hormones, I am her biggest fan and will make sure she sees her Primary Care, gets a referral to a trans-friendly Endocrinologist and then gets regular blood tests as she begins hormones.
Clearly I am not of the Buy-It-Off-The-Internet kind of person, but I do acknowledge my economic privilege in being able to say that. If someone wants them off the Net, I help them find the best expert with the best advice and best recommendations to keep the person healthy, not soaking them for all their money.
Are you doing panty worship classes?
I had to ask for clarification for that one. He asked if I was going to teach her how to honor me and the other Mistresses by sniffing and licking our panties. Probably not anytime soon.
Must You show Your handy work off to Your Lady friends?
I don’t think I have to, but you already saw I brought 3 girlfriends in last Saturday and they will be back tomorrow, too. Marica does have to get used to getting naked and having many people touch her body. Tomorrow, it will be all hands on DICK.
How far into feminization are you going to take him?
The list of all the things I am going to do are in Sissy-in-Training Begins (Week 1). That will answer a lot of questions about how much/how far/how long things will be going on.
If you have more questions, please email me or DM in Twitter!