“I Hate Myself”

This is something I hear from you folks who call, text or cam with me. Sadly, I hear it far too often. Society judges our kinks and fetishes in ways that causes us to hate ourselves at times. To hide in shame. To purge our toys, clothes, makeup, porn, etc. To lie to our partners and loved ones. To sneak around to have our needs met.

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Society is Fucked Up, Not You

For a multitude of reasons that could go on endlessly, our society is not set up for people that are different. But let me tell you, Crossdressers, Transpeople, people who love panties, stockings, being spanked, blindfolded, medical play, being a cuckold, who enjoy BBC, SPH, cum eating and fucked with sex toys… ALL are perfectly normal. I PROMISE.

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Why Are We Judged Us So Harshly?

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This world is crazy. Our society has the most bizarre set of values and beliefs and they affect most of us who pass through LDW or who are reading this via Twitter.

Why I Am Writing This

Mistress Ally, the owner of LDW, read what I have on the front of my blog:

“Let me hold some of your shame; I will give you much of my love”

…and asked me to write a post about why I said/say this.

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I love you who are reading this and who call me or email with me or Skype with me or cam or text with me. When you talk to me, I want you to know you are safe with your (legal) kinks and fetishes. I want you to feel good talking, role playing and masturbating.

You can leave your shame with me when you have finished your call and you get to take a whole heap of love and understanding with you.

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You Are Free

If you are feeling suicidal or that life is horrible and you are scared of hurting yourself, please call the

National Suicide Prevention Line 1-800-273-8255