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I’ve had a few clients recently, talk to me about how they want to serve me, how they want to please me… even turn me on.
Service, at Whose Desire?
Perusing my blog, you can easily see that MSM/Gay Sex is a major turn on to me. I mean, I have only said it about 100 times here already. But, when you are in Service to me, Serving me as a submissive, even an obsequious submissive, does that mean you need to have MSM sex in order to please me?
Listen up, my dear subs… I would never Never NEVER ask something of you that you did not want to do yourself. I would never ask you to have real life sex with a man simply because it turns me on. Real life sex with a man has CONSEQUENCES far, far beyond turning me on. AND, you need to know that if you did it ONLY to please me, but did not want to do it yourself before I came along, then it would not only DISplease me, it would make me crazy sad!
Note this graph from the CDC:
If you got anything… Herpes Simplex Virus (HSV), Human Papilloma Virus (HPV), HIV/AIDS, or any number of other diseases you can get from random anonymous MSM sex… FOR ME… I would live with that, even if you never tell me about it, my spirit would know that somewhere, I have caused someone to be sick.
And then there is the What About Your Partner part… what about that?
Am I making my point? If YOU want to do it, I am all for it… suck 20 cocks a day? Wheeee! Enjoy! Get off on being fucked by 10 strangers a week? Awesome.
BUT DO IT FOR YOU.
NOT. ME.
I adore you all. I LOOOOOVVVVEEEE your kinky selves! I think your minds and experiences are fabulous! I think it is an amazing gift to want to Serve me in these ways. But, I refuse these gifts. Show me YOUR pleasures! THOSE are the gifts I want to see.
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I would & have MSM sex with men? I don’t want any BC not racist but because of extremely high HIV factor and mugging & other etc. I would to be with sissy or porn style TS wearing condoms of course or sucking Mistress Strap-on. Woo hoo. Even as i had recently heard from Harper to put condom on that before sucking PS. I am formerly known as AprilsissyNicole or April Nicole on twitter
I also enjoy almost everything with a woman do have some limits
Thanks so much for Your honesty and caring concern. MSM is not my preference when I am alone for all the reasons You share. Because i am older, there is also a lot of stereotypes and stigma that also plays into why i don’t solicit sex with men in person, or in the virtual world.
However, it doesn’t mean I can’t have a naughty little secret with You in our virtual reality that I feel safe sharing with You that gives me a thrill to fantasize about.
Thanks again for caring and sharing. Pleasing women is my submissive source of pleasure. i love being able to convey my thoughts on ways I would do that, within the external constraints imposed upon our relationship.
I do love being naughty with You and the wonderful bond we have nurtured over the past three and a half years.
Oh, now in PLAY… absolutely understand. The others I was speaking of were REALLY looking to find someone so I would be pleased. But, yes… to TALK about it? To play it in a Scene? Fuck yeah, bring the men on in!
Thank you! I LOVE being naughty with you, too! So so much.
Would love to get it on with other femmi men sissies for My pleasure & Mistress pleasure maybe Daphne could make this more color ful by joing in .
No surprise to me at all Ms. Daphne, but again I just love your post! And perhaps what I love most is what you desire most from your subs. Having them listen to themselves and act on these very desires is what you truly want for them, and in turn for you. This is the very best way they can be in and of service to you and that is beautiful! And you refusing “those gifts” is so wonderfully giving, caring, loving and of course, so authentically YOU!!! 🙂
Thank you for understanding what I was trying to say. I was reading it again, and wondering if it was too harsh and I should pull it down. But, with your comment, it stays.
Thank you, como siempre, dear friend.