What does being Chastity feel like? What do you do with the Chastity Keys?
Chastity Needs
When in a Chastity Cage or Tube, do you feel empowered? Emasculated? In control? Or out of control so much you need to lock your dick up into a chastity for it to behave.
Do you need someone in control of that dick? (Me, me, me!) Or do you do okay on your own? Many do, you know, but others need a Mistress to keep the key (figuratively or literally, as the case may be).
Self-Chastity Key?
As a matter of fact, where do you keep your own chastity key? Do you wear it in case of emergency, like a Hotwife who wears hers… well, her cuckold’s… around her neck? Do you become your own Keyholder?
Freeze the Key!
Many freeze the chastity key in ice so when they find the massive urge to masturbate, they hope the slow thaw allows the overwhelming desire to abate. In my experience, men tend to put the ice block in hot water, chop it up… blessedly most remember the key is metal and do not microwave the hunk of ice.
Timed Lock
Some choose to lock their key in a timed lock (there are zillions of kinds if you search “Timed Locks for Keys”). That way, even hot water cannot change when you can get out of the chastity cage. I love timed locks and find them utterly delicious.
I would love to know how you all discipline yourselves not to take off your chastity cages when wearing them. What do YOU do with the key?
Ms. Daphne,
I’ve asked Jack those same questions. He says empowered and in control, but the best part about it is that he knows he has a loving, caring Mistress who has control of his cock and that his orgasms are for me alone.
Ms. Delia
Ms. Daphne!
Loving this post! Isn’t it amazing the transformation that occurs not only with the male body but the mind as well! I’ve known some to become a bit addicted to it! It’s true, once a submissive male has taken that one step to chastity with their cock control, my my my……… taking away his biological directive in such a tangible way is powerful.
See you around the Empire, sexy lady!
Ms. Erika!
You are SO right on several accounts, como siempre. It is amazing how the man feels he is in control (again/for the first time) when, in fact, it is the woman/Mistress who is in complete control over that cock. It is good to remind them of that, yes?
snickering
Ms. Delia,
Exactly! That Jack even thinks it is him in control is amusing, to say the least. I love when the guys think it is them in control. HA! We know who REALLY is, don’t we?
giant hugs
It is combination of both but it has helped me focuss on more than one thing an must say the key in the cube is a great idea
Good, Lexi! I am glad I could offer a good idea for you.
Let me know how it works!
Yes Mistress thankyou Mistress for this wonderful blog .Yes Mistress i have been ordered to get a smaller chasity cock cage the one i have i keep falling put pf the cage .
Oh it’s wonderful for all those feelings but sadly I haven’t figured out how to do it 24/7 because it makes me very self-conscious at work although I know probably no one is looking down there. But even with the smallest device I own (mature metal custom queen’s keep 1.25” cage) there is a slight bulge in my dress pants
It can be challenging to wear a cage when you are self-conscious, for sure, jizz… but there are other ways to demonstrate your own chastity, even if only to yourself. You can tie a string… pink is my favorite… around the head of your cock… or, if you might pee on it, then down by your balls… and that can remind you when you go to grab yourself that you are in chastity.
Also a commitment to someone, a Mistress, someone that you really will listen to and believe has your best interests at heart… this can be a really good way to go, too.
Just like submissives will sometimes wear something as a reminder, you can, too. Special cufflinks (perhaps with some sort of key design in them… or even a caged animal) or a necklace you wear under your tee shirt. There are a myriad of ways to hide you submissive/cuckold/chastity’d self.
Let me know what works!
I was virtually sexless since October. Was wound up Saturday night and couldn’t sleep even Sunday day & night. My female urges flipped in to high gear and got nymphomaniac horny wet myself 2 a video Sunday
And on Monday your profile photo totally excited me into wettnes
U understand i can’t get hard & don’t jerk
Mr Jizzhead wearing a cage to work as long as you don’t work in a place with metal detector.Avoid working outside sweating chaffing. Benefits of a cage you will now have a package. Where before you had a ring box down there.