Have you thought about what it might feel like to have that tight anal pucker tickled? Whether by you or someone else? Have you ventured there in the shower your finger or other object? What was it like? Pleasurable?
Anal Penetration is Sexy!
Many, MANY men… macho men… love having their assholes played with. You might be one of those. Be brave! Try it! Of course, you girls certainly enjoy it, right?
Is that bad?
Anal Play with Toys
Of course not!
To start, get yourself small anal plug and when you lube it up good (always use LOTS of lube when playing in the back end) and insert it, you will have a delicious feeling in your bum. Perhaps so much so that your cock gets hard and as you masturbate, you might have a fabulous orgasm. Get experimental. Find a vibrating plug for added sensation.
Anal Play for All!
For you straight guys, does anal play mean you are really gay? Will you decide you no longer love women and their pussies, but need to have a dick in your ass?
Absolutely not!
The body is filled with touch receptors that bring pleasure. For so many people, the asshole is one of those really pleasurable areas. You might never think about having someone insert a toy until you are in the throes of passion, and that is cool, too.
It is our society that has issues with anal sex and butt play, not you yourself. Our culture sure does like to put a wet blanket on our sexual pleasure sometimes!
Anal Toys: Go For It!
Anal Toys & More
If you enjoy anal play and even anal sex, does it mean you are going be addicted to it and want bigger and bigger toys until you are trying to sit on the tree stump in the backyard?
No way! Most people settle on a biggest size for their body and stay there. No worries you are going to be a size queen with dildos or butt plugs. Certainly some people do want bigger and bigger sizes and if you do, fabulous! If not, no worries at all.
Whatever you choose, make sure there is a flange at the bottom of the toy! If it does not (like when using fruit or vegetables), it can slide into your body and you might have an embarrassing trip to the ER to have it removed. Flanges, please!
Anal Toys to try:
Butt Plugs (they come in an enormous variety of styles! here are a few)
Vibrating Butt Plugs
Dildos
Suction Cup Dildos
Partner Using a Strapon
A Prostate Dildo
A Prostate Massager with Vibrator
Final Thoughts
If you enjoy having your asshole kissed, licked, touched, penetrated, fucked or pounded… just have a wonderful time with it!
I can’t wait to hear your thoughts!
Just enjoy yourself! Quit overthinking everything.
Good morning mistress. Love your blog. I’ve been interested in exploring my bum as you put it for some time. So I purchased a vibrating anal toy and had the pleasure of Mistress Erika taking my cherry. I must say it was mind blowing and more than I could have ever envisioned. I can’t wait to try and complete my assignments and find the most comfortable position to do myself again.
I love it!!!
GOOD!!!!
Keep it up!
I love this have a toy just like on Twitter photo also the one here haven’t used then in awhile like since last October
I love the way you write with such knowledge! Anal play is still very new to me and I just purchased a plug recently. It gave me a wonderful slutty feelings that I believe I will grow to crave!
Thank you, sweet wessypoo!
I know you will grow to really love anal play! You are off to a great start already!
Yes Ms Daphne:) I’m becoming quiet the anal slut through training, chastity, and having orgasms this way. Hopefully I’ll be bouncing on a dildo soon:)
Wessy!
I am certainly following you in Twitter (@wessypoo), and LOVE following what Ms. Constance (@MissConstance) is doing to your sweet hole.
I can’t WAIT to hear about you backing up on a dildo… getting fucked by that sweet chick-dick. Wheeee!
Love you!