One topic not often discussed is sex when one gets to be a senior, a “mature” adult, older… even plain old.
Sex As a Senior
Many of you know I go to Sex Parties. I don’t think I have ever shared anything about the age ranges at these wonderful parties, however.
I have played with folks (male, female and otherwise) at parties who were as young as 25 and as old as 70. And let me tell you, some of those 70-year olds are quite spritely! One woman in particular is the first to get undressed and the last to go home, loving to do all sorts of wonderfully sexual experiences: getting fucked, sucking cock, getting her pussy licked. She is a major inspiration for me.
Obstacles? Ha!
When we talk about sex as a senior, obvious (and common) issues arise (don’t mind the pun)… women needing extra lubricant, more time and concentration to orgasm… men often needing some erection assistance, as well as time for an orgasm to occur.
I find some of the older folks really enjoy coming to orgasm through masturbation, even after a session with someone else or with several people at once. Masturbation sure seems to remain a staple in our lives way into the future.
I am here to tell you, all of these things are easily attended to at Sex Parties. In fact, they are second nature and no one bats an eye about their partner’s sexual needs. Holding this attitude sure helps with the emotional/psychological needs as well.
Respect Your Elders
For so many of us, our sexual desires and appetites do not diminish with age. At least in our minds… our bodies pretty regularly need a tad of additional attention. If we were into panties as a teen, it is almost a given you will still be wearing them at 72. Have thought about sucking cocks forever? That desire rarely vanishes, even over time.
I believe we need to honor our hungers, even if we do not have access to Sex Parties or our bodies can’t quite do what they used to. I encourage you to figure out your own needs as a senior and give them the due respect deserved.
Listen & Learn
And for us young-un’s, I believe we must listen to our amazing elders and the challenges they have had and how they’ve overcome them in order to have a satisfying (and delicious!) sex life… through the ages.
Yes Ms. Daphne, I hope I am never too old for sex. I think we, as Americans really underestimate how it contributes to health both mentally and physically. If you look at other cultures, especially Eastern ones it is the norm to have sex into old age. Glad you brought this up. Time to realize there is nothing disgusting about getting it on into old age!!!
Ms. Lena,
You are absolutely correct about not being too old. I went to a Sex Party on Saturday night (working on stories now) and there was a 75-year old man and, separately, the regular 73-year old woman… both having the times of their lives. I got to tease the gentleman a bit and I had so much fun.
Oh, my! You bring up Eastern cultures… do you do yoga? I have seen some amazingly limber and focused folks way into their 80’s… and of course, others have seen those in their 90’s at various practices around the world. You know their bodies are still filled with sexual hunger and energy. Delicious!
Thank you so much for writing. You sure have perked my mind up this afternoon!
I LOVE this post, Ms. Daphne! I know some of us ladies are on the more mature side, myself included. I often think about what I’m going to be like when I’m older. Suddenly it’s not so odd that men and women in their 50s, 60s, 70s, and beyond are still as naughty as they were when they were 25! Sex keeps you young, I say, and I intend to stay as young as I can by having plenty of sex!
Ms. Piper… blushing – thank you! I am so glad you loved it. huge smile
Yes, PLENTY of sex! Exactly! Do you think like I do that a goodly amount of this ongoing sexual hunger comes from the “older” folks having been active during the Sexual Revolution of the 60’s? I am sure that, back then, they didn’t give one thought about what they would be like 50+ years later, but so many had dramatically different experiences than the generation before in the 40’s and 50’s. What they were exposed to… and participated in… had to have made an impression, don’t you think?
Let’s add our getting-older Selves to the wave of ongoing sexual activities until we lay down in exhaustion after that one last orgasm.
You game, Ms. Piper? huge smile-wink
“Use or lose it,” it has been proven that people who have sex live longer. Sex keeps you active and possibly off medications. Sex is a beautiful physical pleasure that should occur any time of the day no appointment needed. If you have a good man and a good sexual life I absolutely see no reason not to enjoy a healthy sex life.
Oh, yes, Ms. Cindy!
We both/all know the rush of endorphins that flow through our bodies during and after sex & orgasms. That is surely the best exercise and medication ever, right? I also love the idea of “no appointment needed” to have an orgasm… builds right on that prescription-for-fun idea. Yum!
You are right about when we have a good man and having a good sexual life, but I will add that even when someone doesn’t have a partner, our sex lives can remain active and pleasurable. You and I (and the other Mistresses here at LDW) are proof that it doesn’t take 2 (or more!) real-life folks to have a sexy fun time.
Ready, set, GO! hugging Ms. Cindy
Great post, Daphne! I can assure everyone that sex is not even a bit of a problem, at least through the age of 61! What I really want to know, though, is how do I wrangle an invite to one of these parties?? ??
Dearest Joe-who-is-pretty-darned-close-to-where-I-live!
How delightful to know your sex drive has not been adversely affected by getting a tad older. I suspect things might have changed some, yes?
Regarding the parties: I will write a post about them. Thank you for being the 100th man to ask. Time to answer the question in a post!
See you in Tumblr, dear boy.