Life can be really tough sometimes. I know it might seem obvious, but the Mistresses here at LDW are quite skilled at listening and understanding the very real stresses in life.

When You’re Stressed Out

artist, Reylia

Not only do you guys and gals want (or need?) an orgasm when you are stressed, sometimes you just need to talk things out. As far as I know, none of us are therapists (though many like me have gobs of Psychology classes behind us), but I can tell you, from my own talking to the Mistresses, these women are amazing listeners.



While we more often talk to older folks, there are definitely college-aged boys & girls here, too. School can be an enormous reason to be stressed out.

When you have final exams, that seems to be a common time to call. So many of us have been in school, through college, we totally get it.

When your family and friends don’t want to listen anymore, we will!

Work Stress

artist, Leslie Herman

Oh, my… work can totally make you stressed out sometimes.

You Alpha folks especially can struggle with always carrying the world on your shoulders. It can be an enormous relief to allow your Mistress to carry some of that burden for you, even if it is only for a few minutes.

And isn’t it fun to fantasize about your workmates? Push that secretary over your conference table and fuck her silly. Or, better yet, have her kneel and suck your dick.

Stress? What stress?

Being Single & Your Kinks/Fetishes

Being single is an interesting stress. My married/attached clients, wish they were single, yet my single ones are often seeking a partner.

It can be a challenge when you have very strong kinks & fetishes. Not every person you date is going to understand. For some of you, very few will understand and perhaps you’ve experienced rejection before and are nervous about trying again.

And my sweet virgins, you are not forgotten either. No matter if you are 20 or 60 (or more!) and have never had a relationship, it can be somewhat lonely sometimes, but we Mistresses really enjoy talking to you, too. You might be lonely, but you are not alone.

Balancing Marriage with Kinks/Fetishes

Ahhh, my married folks.

Whether you hide your kink, move through the Binge-Purge cycle or sneak out to fulfill your needs, it can be so difficult not telling anyone.

Being able to release the inner pressure of secrecy is one of the things we do best. You can tell us just about anything and we do not judge. Your secrets are safe with us.


Some Kinks & Fetishes come with a hefty dose of shame. That can be one of the most difficult aspects to shoulder on your own.

With us, you can release that shame, even if it is only for the duration of a call. No need for shame or embarrassment with us. (Unless, of course, that is part of your Kink/Fetish! Then we can heap it on.)

Talking Out That Stress

There are, of course, going to be many aspects of your life I have not touched on here, but know we all are experienced… very experienced… in talking about all kinds of topics, even the ones that have nothing to do with an orgasm.

Again, you are not alone anymore.