Thanks usually come at the end, but I feel compelled to thank Mistress Fiona at the outset for her wonderful post about Tantric Sex in our various communities here at LDW. She embraces all sexes and genders, something not often done in the Tantric community. Even if this isn’t something you think will interest you (or turn you on), please read anyway! Many of us Mistresses are Mindfulness Meditators and enjoy the more “energetic” types of sexual experiences. We know that you will find great joy in your own explorations.
And to put a tiny (sexual) carrot out there for you… Tease & Denial are, most assuredly, Tantric in its most basic form. Ask any man who “rides the wave of the Edge” for any length of time.
Thank you again, Ms. Fiona… just awesome!
Various Meanings and Myths of Tantra Sex Part 1
(the rest in the Mystical Merging Series is coming soon on mistressoffantasy.com)
Myth: Tantra is too confusing and intimidating to explore!
It can feel that way at first but let’s just break down a few basics.
-A few examples of some of these erotic culminations and collections of communities and belief systems are Pre-Vedic, Hindu, Shamanic, Yogic, Buddhist.
-Pretty Heady sounding? Yes, but the good news is it’s less about the meaning more about the doing. There are a few fun ways to play and ponder with your lover(s) some of the main principles and roles to add some serious spice to not just your sexual being but your partners as well which will be highlighted in Part 2 on my blog.
Myth: Tantra is only worth doing for attaining intense orgasms and marathon sex romps.
Truth: The co-creating process of bonding with your partner as a divine being, & experiencing the exchange loving expressions of sacred sexually is more of the guiding principle in Tantra. However, elongated orgasms and longer lasting intensive pleasure is often a wonderful side effect of your mutual pursuit of attaining this interactive enlightenment 😉
Myth: The LGBT community is left out of Tantra completely.
“Tantra is a practice of being fully alive. Dualistic thinking obscures the wide spectrum of direct experience. If we categorize the world into masculine and feminine, black and white, inside and outside, gay and straight…we miss out on a wide range of possible experiences that are fluidly shifting between spirit and form.
Some tantric traditionalists implore that there must have a polarity between Masculine and Feminine (Shiva/Shakti) when practicing tantra. Through the years I’ve been to many old school rituals where gay and lesbian and trans couples are not allowed to practice with same sex partners. I am happy to say that the trend is evolving towards more inclusion and sexual fluidity. Modern Tantra teachers are realizing -that the deepest tantric practices are the solo practice of cultivating the Shiva/Shakti within. One of my fundamental teachings is a deep esoteric marriage between one’s inner God and Goddess.” -Kamala Devi
Kamala Devi and Queer Tantra are wonderful to investigate online and to find local practitioners and more info. There are many neo-tantric options for EVERYBODY.
Thank you Ms. Daphne for letting me guest blog -you are an amazing and sexy Goddess! XOXOX –Fiona
Thank You Ms Daphne for this introduction to Ms. Fiona. It is such an inspiring, and thought provoking topic for this Practicing Tantrica. i really appreciated Your explanation of the uniting of two energetically charged life forces that “channel the divine energy …” Oh the synergistic vortex created when two compatible people connect their energy with that of the earth through their root chakras; the Masters of the Universe through their crown chakras; and become one; where pleasing is pleasurable and being lost “in the moment” together is blissful. Making that moment last as long as time permits, in the rolling breakers of perpetual orgasm is surely worth taking the time to properly prepare.
And i love the point of Shiva/Shakti within each of use and striving to find the proper balance between them. i am so proud that i have allowed my feminine persona to blossom here as well.
Brevity has never been my strong suit, so i will continue to ponder, and seek that perfect match for an energetically charged life force to play and partner with.
Dear Mistress thankyou of course female dominance is really spiritual and mystical!