It is no secret how much I love cock sucking. I was lucky to learn from my gay friends when I was in my late teens and love to pass on the skills to others.
It is so common for you straight guys to fantasize about cock sucking, I am no longer surprised when it is brought up, usually very hesitantly and embarrassed. I hope I am able to put you at ease (on the phone and here) so you can move on with your dream of putting that dick in your mouth.
Safety First
Of course, the logistics of that first time (and subsequent times) can be a barrier to success. I will share where men usually find cock, but you must be careful and safe, however you do it.
Careful and safe includes, but is not limited to: wearing condoms, making sure a friend knows where you are in case you need help, meeting the new person in public first so you can get a feel for their safety with you alone, and having your cell phone accessible at all times to call for help if you need it. Some people will tell the front desk to check on them after a certain length of time and that is a very helpful plan to initiate. If you are paying for sex, there is the added risk of prostitution; just be aware.
If you are inclined to find dick in public places (parks, bathrooms, dressing rooms, etc.), you really need to be careful because undercover cops often frequent those places looking for “lewd behavior.” You do NOT want to go to jail because it leads to a whole other pile of troubles.
Where to Find Cock
Many, many men (and women) find willing participants in the classified ads, one main place in particular, but I don’t want to name it here. There you can find any number of choices… from Sissies wanting to suck your cock or get fucked to transwomen who will totally let you suck their cocks and then there are the other bi-curious men like you. It is not uncommon that you will have to pay; remember to be safe!
The ever-popular way to find guys is online. There are a slew of Gay Dating sites (Google “Gay Dating Sites” and dozens will come up for you to choose from).
Another common place to find cock is the Glory Holes in the back of “dirty” bookstores. It is often safe to dress (as a Sissy/CD/transwoman), but I encourage either a phone call or a quick visit ahead of dressing in case they frown on it.
Some men find massage parlors a nice place to experiment with cocks. Of course you have to pay for the massage and a “Happy Ending” can be part of the package deal, but if you get a male masseuse, you might be able to finagle a delicious suck on his cock.
Probably the most common way to find someone to play with regularly and without paying is honing in on someone in your work, the bar, gym or social circle. Perhaps there is that out co-worker you can imagine being on your knees for. Or your wife’s best work buddy (her work husband) that always finds his way over to your house for dinner and drinks. A neighbor who smiles extra big at you. The man in the grocery store you see every Thursday night. The guy who always spots you when you are lifting weights. And there is the visit to the gay bar… the man who asks you to dance.
Of course, there is the dance you will have to do, using code words and suggestive behaviors so the other person is the only one who knows what you are talking about if they are in-the-know.
One More (Huge) Safety Warning
If you are a Sissy, Cross Dresser or transwoman yourself, you need to be especially careful of your physical safety. Women on the trans spectrum, especially if you are a trans person of color, are attacked, abused and even killed far more than those who are not trans. You must be conscious of your safety at all times.
Great advice. I know for me the safest way is to not really do it, but rather play out the fantasy on a call (and webcam) for mistress. I find this to be a lot of fun and I really enjoy taking that dildo in my mouth while the mistress watches me on cam and we pretend that it’s a real cock. To be honest, not sure I would really want to suck on a real cock. But I do enjoy the fantasy of it. I have even played out the fantasy with a few escorts that I trust. They tie me up to the bed (feet and hands), tease the hell out of me and my cock, then blindfold me and they put their strapon on and make me take it in my mouth, teasing me with it, teasing me that I want to suck on a real cock. It is a lot of fun, and I love when they slap my face with it and grab my head from behind and make me gag on it. When they make me show how I want them to kiss and lick and suck on my cock. This is really fun when I have done it with 2 escorts because then one can play with my cock the way I am playing with the fake cock. I won’t lie, I have at times fantasized or wished that perhaps they might trick me after they blindfold me and bring someone in with a real cock (shemale with tits would be pretty cool). I have often wondered what would I do? Would I be as eager to suck on it once I realized it was a real cock? Would I be more turned on by the fact that it was a real cock? And if I did, would the mistress get me to suck on it by teasing and edging my cock, by putting her lips just above my cock and saying she won’t put her lips on mine until I start putting my on his? Or would I be repulsed by it and would my dick go limp at the feel and sight of it? There are oh so many scenarios they could play out in this situation. And yes, they could still force me to suck on it because I am tied up and at their mercy.
Mmmm… you made my clit hard, PB, talking about sucking “cock” as practice/in fantasy! I love it! And for plenty… maybe even MOST… it is exactly as far as it will ever go.
AND THAT IS PERFECTLY FINE!
That you have found a way to feed your kink is awesome and I love it. I love Love LOVE that you shared here what you do when a live cock isn’t available/possible… so others with the same hunger can fulfill their desires in a similar way.
I have found, my new cock-sucking friend, that the leap from dildo to cock can be a HUGE hurdle… often never crossed. Your inner thoughts about would you really suck a cock are very, very common. And, to be honest, you really never have to answer it! Just like someone who fantasizes about having sex in the park would never, in a million years really go have sex in public, the beauty of fantasy is it gets to run free! Crazy! Rampant! Just let the hormones zoom through your cock and totally get into the imagination of a hard, thick, veiny cock in your mouth. Know what I mean?
You have made me smile tonight. Thank you SO much for writing. You write beautifully. I might just ask you if I can make this comment a post. wink