What is Aftercare? What should it look like? How do you know if you are getting good BDSM Aftercare? Let me demonstrate.
Aftercare is represented in the above picture. It is a part of a BDSM Scene, a crucial part. It is the segment of a scene that often isn’t on display for others to witness. It is an intimate connection between the Top and the bottom (or Dom/me and submissive). It is Part 3 of the trio of segments of a Scene: Negotiation, Scene & Aftercare.
So, here, I speak as if I am talking with one of my submissives who has had a power-full Scene with me. Perhaps there was bondage… a great deal of pain offered by the sub… one where they fell deeply into subspace.
Speaking Softly & Privately
Come to me, my sweet pet. Here… let me lay you down gently on this cushioned platform. There you go, dear one. That’s right… right against me. Come up a little higher… here, on my breast. Yes, yes.
Take a tiny sip of water. Yes, good boy.
Oh, my love… you smell so beautiful… your body on mine feels wonderful. Melt right into me. Feel your edges fade into mine and let me support all of your Being.
I feel your heart. Even if you can’t hear mine, feel the love I have oozing out for you, covering your tired body.
You worked so hard for me. You gave me such a wondrous gift tonight. Feel the love I have for that gift of your submission. It brings tears to my eyes, the amount of gratitude I have for your generosity.
Another sip, my dear one. Good. Another for me, please. Very good.
That’s right. Snuggle in deeper. Here, suckle my nipple. Let me send you love through my breast.
I love stroking your hair gently. Feeling your mouth pull and suck on my nipple. Your soft moans are lovely.
That’s right. Feel our auras swirl around each other slowly. Our colors mixing. Melding. Blending. Bringing us into One, as we were during the Scene itself.
We were magical in that Scene, you and I. We “danced” as One.
Take a sip… a longer draw. Good. Feeling good? I’m glad, love.
Yes, pull in deep again. Let me enfold you into my heart.
Let me have your hand… yes… let me tuck your fingers into my cunt. Touch The Source and draw energy from me.
Ah, I see that fed you nicely.
No, no moving… stay tucked into me. Suckle, my precious pet.
Start separating from me now. Feel our auras pulling apart slowly. Very slowly. Nothing too fast. There is no time limit to our connection.
Gradually, gently… there, pull your fingers from my pussy. Lick them, love. Mmmm… good boy. Yes, lick them clean. No, no more nipple… just lay against me for awhile more.
Thank you for letting me rub your skin softly. You feel so good under my fingers. Touching your back gently. Your arms. Brushing your sweaty hair back. Soft kisses on your cheek. (I lick your lips.)
Coming back now, love? There. Sit up a little more. Slowly. If you feel light-headed at all, lay back down. Doing well? smiling Good. I’m so glad you’re doing well. Have some more water. Good, a nice healthy drink.
Look in my eyes, my pet. Ah, yes. You are with us now. Very good.
Even as we part, know I am sending you love. If you need me again this evening, come to me and I will hold you until your need passes. You are not alone.
kissing your lips gently
Thank you again for your gift, my love. It won’t be forgotten.
Now let me walk you to the bathroom and then to the kitchen to get something to eat. Nourishment of the body after nourishment of the spirit.
Remember, I am always here for you to process. Once you have found your words again, if you want to talk about the Scene, we’ll find a corner and go over it together. I am here for you.
Yes, my sweet pet. I am always here for you.