Life can be really tough sometimes. I know it might seem obvious, but the Mistresses here at LDW are quite skilled at listening and understanding the very real stresses in life.
When You’re Stressed Out
artist, Reylia
Not only do you guys and gals want (or need?) an orgasm when you are stressed, sometimes you just need to talk things out. As far as I know, none of us are therapists (though many like me have gobs of Psychology classes behind us), but I can tell you, from my own talking to the Mistresses, these women are amazing listeners.
School
While we more often talk to older folks, there are definitely college-aged boys & girls here, too. School can be an enormous reason to be stressed out.
When you have final exams, that seems to be a common time to call. So many of us have been in school, through college, we totally get it.
When your family and friends don’t want to listen anymore, we will!
Work Stress
artist, Leslie Herman
Oh, my… work can totally make you stressed out sometimes.
You Alpha folks especially can struggle with always carrying the world on your shoulders. It can be an enormous relief to allow your Mistress to carry some of that burden for you, even if it is only for a few minutes.
And isn’t it fun to fantasize about your workmates? Push that secretary over your conference table and fuck her silly. Or, better yet, have her kneel and suck your dick.
Stress? What stress?
Being Single & Your Kinks/Fetishes
Being single is an interesting stress. My married/attached clients, wish they were single, yet my single ones are often seeking a partner.
It can be a challenge when you have very strong kinks & fetishes. Not every person you date is going to understand. For some of you, very few will understand and perhaps you’ve experienced rejection before and are nervous about trying again.
And my sweet virgins, you are not forgotten either. No matter if you are 20 or 60 (or more!) and have never had a relationship, it can be somewhat lonely sometimes, but we Mistresses really enjoy talking to you, too. You might be lonely, but you are not alone.
Balancing Marriage with Kinks/Fetishes
Ahhh, my married folks.
Whether you hide your kink, move through the Binge-Purge cycle or sneak out to fulfill your needs, it can be so difficult not telling anyone.
Being able to release the inner pressure of secrecy is one of the things we do best. You can tell us just about anything and we do not judge. Your secrets are safe with us.
Shame
Some Kinks & Fetishes come with a hefty dose of shame. That can be one of the most difficult aspects to shoulder on your own.
With us, you can release that shame, even if it is only for the duration of a call. No need for shame or embarrassment with us. (Unless, of course, that is part of your Kink/Fetish! Then we can heap it on.)
Talking Out That Stress
There are, of course, going to be many aspects of your life I have not touched on here, but know we all are experienced… very experienced… in talking about all kinds of topics, even the ones that have nothing to do with an orgasm.
Again, you are not alone anymore.
Pleasing other people certainly has its upsides. When it’s from the heart, it can be really rewarding. On the flipside, things can get really ugly in this department as we struggle to keep up with societal expectations. It doesn’t always have to be about sex. Just knowing that someone is out there to hear you is enough. I’m glad the Mistresses of LDW are here to serve in that capacity.
Ms. Alexis, Not sure what happened, but I missed this. Sorry for the delay in responding!
You are so right about the societal expectations… and they are shifting daily at the moment… so being able to share and vent can help our clients find a place of balance, even if just for awhile.
I am so glad you are here, too, beautiful Ms. Alexis. hugs hugs
It is very true we Mistresses LOVE to listen to our callers. We are professional listeners! It’s true we don’t act in a therapist capacity, but we can be really amazing when it comes to listening, mirroring back, and offering advice! 🙂
So, so right, Ms. Piper…
Thanks for adding your experiences, too.
giant hugs
Great post!!! For me it’s getting dressed up and getting off to deal with this. Even better when I do 2 mistress call where both corce me into being their cream puff girl. I’ve met my match as lady who massages me said we are going dress shopping with makeover of me included 2nd week of May or June. She picked out clothes/dress for me that came in and wants me to try on for her after my waxing this Friday. She had bring my dresses to try on for her last Friday and told me how cute and adorable I looked. I was told she’s going to watch over my spending so we can go shopping and admitted to her I’m glad she’s doing this and taking control of me. I’m in real female led relationship as she’s being the dom and I’m her soft/weak/feminine cream puff sub. She has my skin girlish smelling and soft using cherry blossom lotions/mist along with same facial creams. She has me wrapped around her fingers and nails firmly dug into me with no intention of ever letting me go.
Thank you, as always, Petey for your detailed reply!
What a creative life you live.
I love it!