I’ve had a slew of clients recently asking me about Big Black Cock (BBC) and why do women (and many men!) crave them. I thought it was about time to talk about it… openly and without shame.
Now, some find it racist to be attracted to BBC… that they are “fetishized.” I am one who tries not to judge people’s desires and kinks. Sometimes there is no explanation at all why we are attracted to someone… or some-thing. I encourage just accepting it for what it is and enjoy it! Dream about it. Masturbate thinking about it. Fulfill those fantasies if you are able to.
Size Matters
I have had sex with lots of men. Lots. And the grand majority of those men were black. I know some people like to say they know a black man with a small cock, but from my decades of experience… and certainly what we see in porn movies… shows that most black men have deliciously large, long and thick dicks. With veins.
swoon
The Biggest Dick…
…I ever saw with my own eyes was a Jamaican man’s. I saw it in his pants, but wasn’t quite sure what I was seeing. Could that really be a penis? Near his… knee? I had to find out.
We went to his place and as he dropped his pants down, my eyes bugged out more with every passing moment. Good lord, it was his cock in there! When the pants were on the floor (fuck underwear at that point, right?), there in front of me was a man about 5″8″ tall with a dick that dangled almost to his knee. Later I realized my mouth must have been gaping open with… awe? shock? because he reached behind him and picked up a measuring tape.
The man kept a measuring tape on his bedside table.
(I imagined he had to measure and re-measure about 8000 times before believing its length, too.)
Anyway, it was rather amusing that he gave me the measuring tape and I held off for a second. Is he flaccid? Hard? It was difficult to tell. I shrugged and measured anyway.
13″
Thirteen fucking inches.
But Could He Fuck?
I’d love to tell you the story ended amazingly erotic… that he fucked me for hours, filling my cunt with every black inch he owned… and that I came and came and came. But, alas, the story was much more of a yawn than that. This dude made his cock hard (yes, I measured again. Still 13 inches.) and thrust part-way in me twice… maybe three times… and came. I remember stifling a laugh that he sucked that bad. He might have had a God-sized dick, but the man couldn’t do shit with it.
I made sure because I slept with him again to see if the first time was a fluke. It wasn’t. (Can you see me rolling my eyes with this hilarious memory?)
Still, Black Men… yum!
That unfortunate experience did not stop me from sleeping with more black men, however. Most were a more “normal”-sized 9 or 10 inches. And fuck me silly, those men could wield those cocks as if they were swords slaying dragons. I was no damsel in distress, either.
The Black Man/White Woman Stereotype
If your girlfriend or wife waves a Big Black Cock under your nose, telling you how much she wants to be fucked by one, it could be one of several reasons (or all of them rolled into one!). What has she told you why she wants a black man in her cunt?
There is the enormous historic taboo of a black man fucking a white woman. We simply cannot discount the sexual charge of a taboo. Perhaps your partner is wanting to touch that electricity?
That there is so much porn, erotica and fantasies about a black man and a white woman gives a hint as to its sexual power. Instead of freaking out that you aren’t being “Politically Correct” with your fantasies, just go with them! Ride the energy. Have fun with your thoughts instead of projecting society’s incessant judgment on what makes your cock hard or your pussy wet.
JUST HAVE FUN!
I know I’ll be reading this series with interest! I agree with You Miss Daphne, as you know, regarding avoiding kink shaming, but I will say that for Myself, because of My personal convictions, I am not the Mistress to go to if a boy or gurl has fantasies that involve racial epithets, or treating a Black man as if he’s nothing but a big dumb animal with no personality and all sex drive.
*hugging you warmly*
I know… the piece definitely borders on (if not out-and-out) fetishizes black men. And it is a fine, *fine* line I walk to write these two parts of this story while remembering that BBC is connected to a heart, a soul and a psyche that deserves complete respect and kindness. I knew when I began this would probably come up and am never more glad to hear the thoughts from you, dear Ms. Rachel. Your convictions are totally heard and honored. Thank you for even taking a moment to tell me your thoughts. It means a lot that you would.
As far as Race Play, I do *not* have issues with it in the context of fantasy. The N-word is *extremely* difficult to push out of my mouth, but I can… in a Scene only.
This topic is so weighted with politics, history, emotion and taboo… I am glad to explore it here in comments with whomever else wants to share their thoughts.
Again, Ms. Rachel… thank you for opening the door.
Wow, You’re such a beautiful person, Daphne. That’s such a wise way to deal with things. I guess I should also consider that some Black people *like* being called names as part of their own kink.
It’s so good to talk these hot-button topics out… at least it is for me. Thank you for your continued thoughts. It’s great!
I am curious,does it hurt to have a dick that big inside you?
I would think that the racial “issues” if there are any, would be mitigated in some cuckold situations. For me as a cuck I would probably prefer to think of “him” as a big dick and that is all, it is just easier to deal with it that way. And that is one individual, not an entire race.
On the other hand, my wife will presumably get to know “him” better on a personal level.
Ah, chrissy… you will have to wait for Part 2!!!!!
I will go into it in minute detail. Graphic.
Mmmm
You will surely enjoy it. (Like your wife will, too! laughingwink)
I was hoping to have the 2nd part out by now so I could answer your question, but alas, it is taking some time. Sorry!
I promise to address that in Part 2!
Can’t wait to satisfy your curiosity, chrissy.
If we Mistresses can’t ask the tough questions and explore the depths of our kinkiest desires then who can? I have to agree with others in that you have done a fabulous job of putting the big black cock at the forefront of discussion. And while this article IS interesting from an educational standpoint, let’s face it. There are some guys out there who are drooling at the thought of a BBC as they hang on to each word! Hehehe
Dearest Ms. Alexis! Thank you so much for writing your thoughts! It means a lot that you would. huge smile
And yes, I do hope to have our men/bois/girls/sissies slurping up drool with Part 2.
Writing, writing!
Thanks so much again for writing.
What a great post, Ms. Daphne! I think you addressed it beautifully. I would like to undress a BBC anytime! I am with you, and the saying once you go black (not being offensive here, I hope) you never go back is kind of true. But the thing is, in my experience, BBC men never like to eat pussy! Have you noticed that? Anyway…I love the stamina and the size. It’s just so damn hot!
giggling
Oh, Ms. Meredith! We could tear UP some lovely BBC, couldn’t we?!?!
mind racing
aww and was a 3 pump chump lol sad
laughing and nodding
Yes. Yes he was.
laughing, remembering
i can last over 3 minutes
*blink*
That’s sure to impress the girls.
is that why i dont ever get a 2nd chance. ive missed you dAphne….
Quite possibly.
Haven’t we talked about how to not cum so fast? I seem to recall we have. Have you tried?
I miss you, too, sweet boy! Been busy (yay!)… but do come say hi in YIM!
ive tried too, doesnt work…
Great read Ms Daphne … exciting and educational (if I said I wasn’t drooling you would know I wasn’t being truthful ha).
Mistress Daphne really hits all subjects right on the head. Consenting adults and race play can be highly erotic. sissy jamy personally would like to kneel down in front if a BBC.
The rest of this deliciously erotic post edited for our safety’s sake.
Thank you, jamy, for commenting! You are awesome.
I have only recently developed an urge to suck black cock for many years i found this unattractive being at first turned on by tiny penis sisdy clitties. Now i am enjoying seeing BBC getting taken care of and the look of pleasure on the one giving the pleasure. I have made up my mind if i have a Chance for a BBC i will.if i find the cock attractive. A glory hole would be an amazing outlet i hear there is one close to Tampa