I Am Cait

I don’t watch reality shows. Ever. But when Caitlyn Jenner came out trans*, I knew I wanted to watch her process, if not for my own education (which it is, even with all I know about transgender issues… and I know a LOT), but so I can see what is being...

Rainy Day Sex

Tropical Storm Erika petered out, but has been dumping buckets of rain on Miami for a couple of days. It’s been dark in the house except for the one lamp I have on and the periodic flashes of lightning… that leads to the rocking thunder afterwards. I crawl...

“Am I Transgender?”

As a Mistress, I get asked this at least a couple of times a week, so I thought I would address it here. If you are asking this question, I am sure you have Googled it already, so have read what others, including the professionals, have to say. I will share my...

Sex in a Chair

I went to a party a few weeks ago and had some seriously fun sex. Thought I’d share my experience with you all. Courting There is a ritual at sex parties where folks get to know each other before engaging… courting. It starts with introductions and...

Play Party

I went to a Play Party a few days ago and had a blast! A Play Party is a gathering of like-minded BDSM folks who play together in a huge space that has a variety of huge wooden structures made to hold, trap, bind and suspend individuals who will be “worked...